The voice of experience. Is there any really credible counter to this?Posted by rainbowbob: I once drove a UPS truck as a Xmas temp. The best thing they taught every driver was the positive effect of the "smile and wave". This is similar to the "my bad" wave.
You may be amazed at how disarming an admission of "guilt" can be when confronted by an out-of-control rager - even if you have nothing to apologize for.
"You're right - I'm wrong" renders most belligerent types speechless!
Seems to me that that simple truth extends far beyond the subject at hand!Your "pride" and being "right" has little or no value compared to avoiding unnecessary conflict - particularly if you are armed.
Now, if a little conciliatory gesture does not do the trick, here's some advice that seems sound to me:
Posted by conwict: Most situations people freak out about (being followed aggressively) can be resolved by driving to a police station or somewhere else with a presence of "authority" and rather than stopping, laying on the horn. Remember, unless the person is ramming you, WHATEVER they have up their sleeves you will be better off moving than stopped!!! This is also where a call to the cops pays off if you can give a general overview of where you are and where you are headed. They may be minutes away but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't call even if you suspect the person won't follow you for several minutes.