First situation involving someone trying to get into my home

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Corpral_Agarn

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Last night at around 2:40am my wife and I awaken to the sound of someone pounding on the front door of our little apartment and demanding to be let in.

I immediately grabbed my pistol (Sig 239, 9mm) and went to the doorway to the next room such that I could see the door.

The man outside was pleading that he wasn't going to "hurt nobody" and just wanted to "have some fun". He said all kinds of things, yelled at somebody named Tim, shouted strong profanities intended for us at the door. But what set me really on edge was when I distinctly heard the word "wallet".

He didn't stop beating on the door and repeatedly tried to turn the door nob.
Not thinking of anything better, I shouted, "You should leave!" and picked up my cell phone.

I dial 911 and give dispatch a brief description (as best I could) of the situation. I like to think that I stayed relatively calm while talking, but I could feel my voice wanting to break and my words speed up.

I told dispatch that someone was trying to break into my home, my address, and my name (in that order) and to please send someone immediately. The lady on the phone told me they had someone on the way and that I was to remain on the line. Twice dispatch asked if the loud thumping noise was the man outside yelling and beating on the door.

Our "visitor" on the other side of the door continued his rant and pound on the door and window (big window. big enough to walk through when open). He yelled at us "Do you want me to stake out your house? Every night I will be here! do you want that?!" and then to just "come out and handcuff" him, then let him in. My wife and I agreed that this individual was under the influence of some kind of drug. Alcohol, weed, meth?... we didn't know, but it was clear that he was not behaving normally.

I think that the waiting was the toughest part. I was "ready", but quickly started re-evaluating my situation.
I wanted more bullets in my pistol. My spare mag was close and I reload pretty fast but it didn't seem fast enough right then.
I wanted a rifle. A rifle with lots more bullets and a spare mag close.
I wanted that window to hold fast and the cops to get there sooner.
I also didn't want to have to hurt this man... but I knew I would if he came through the window. I had made that decision before this night. I love my wife dearly. Strangely enough I don't remember fear, but my palms were beginning to get sweaty and my body got cold. No shakes at this point.

Soon, and I commend them for their speed, an officer arrived I heard the handcuffs click and the man, still yelling, was lead down the stairs. My part of this incident was over. I peered out my window and told dispatch that the man had been taken into custody. They asked if i wanted to speak to an officer. "Yes please," I replied.

After a few minutes an officer called to tell me that that man had no criminal record, was drunk beyond belief, and would be spending the night in jail to sleep it off. The officer didn't think there was need for concern and that this was most likely an isolated incident.

I have been in situations where peoples lives were at stake before and handled them well; but I have never been confronted with a force on force situation where my life, my wife's life, and the life of someone I didn't know could all come down to my decision to pull a trigger. That is a scary thought all by itself.

Just thought I would share that these things do happen when you are just minding your own business and that being prepared doesn't always feel the same when it comes time to put those preparations into practice.

On a side note, my wife has expressed interest in spending more time shooting and practicing because of this incident. I was very glad to hear that.

Sorry for the long post. Thanks for reading! Stay vigilant my friends!
 
Glad everyone came out safe, and the police showed up quickly enough to take control of the situation. Making an assumption here, but it sounds like our perp might have had a substance abuse issue :)

I had someone kick my door in one night in a similar situation, with no police showing up in time. While I also had my firearm on me, I was lucky enough to have not had to use it either.
 
Thanks for the information. Also thanks for letting us know what you wanted in your hands vs what you had. I've often wondered if I would want something different myself.
 
Glad to know it ended safely. See if PD will give you a photo of the man so that you, your wife, your neighbors, and the local patrols can be on the lookout. For some reason, his drunk mind thought your house was a good place to land, and he could think so again. Thanks for your post.
 
^^ Nothing beats a basic old fashioned 12 guage shotgun in a situation like that.

Glad you're OK, and hope you don't have it happen again.


Willie

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Glad everything turned out ok.

I have taught my wife to rattle off two things as soon as dispatch answers the 911 call: your address and "send a patrol car and an ambulance". Here in CA, a cell phone 911 call goes to a State dispatcher, who then relays the info to the local police. Your landline automatically provides your address to the dispatcher. So the immediate relay of your address to the State dispatcher can cut crucial seconds off the response time. It may even save your life if you only have a few seconds to talk to the dispatcher. Just FYI....

Otherwise good on you for being prepared.

You want to teach that perp a lesson??? Find him when he is sober.....and gently inform him that his life would've ended if he'd gotten into your house. Maybe it will change him a bit.
 
Seems like the guy thought he was at someone else's house.... I can remember people being so drunk that they thought they were in different states (geographically, not states of mind). So I could see how someone who was really drunk could have thought they were at a house there weren't...

off topic, but one time (while not intoxicated) and not too long ago, maybe about 2 months... I walked into a car in a parking lot that was not mine... Same exact car... same exact location, but in a lane over, Just got confused I guess... I tried to turn it over but the key wouldn't turn.. then I saw a picture of a child... and I don't have any children, so I got out and realized I just got into someone elses car... I laughed uncomfortably all the way to mine! so drunk or not dumb mistakes do happen! :)

Glad everything is okay. In this instance I agree with the earlier post about wondering if I would ever feel the same way in the same situation... But I don't think Id want a rifle with sincere penetrating power... I think I agree with the earlier post that mentioned a 12 guage.
 
If I am holing up to defend my home, I have my AR in my hand (that is the plan anyways). A pistol is nice for the maneuverability that it offers, but 30 rounds of a much more powerful round gives me a much better peace of mind.
 
Glad it worked out, and that being drunk didn't get him shot, as it would (justifiably) likely have had he been able to gain access.

I've been the cop on that call many a time..
 
On a side note, my wife has expressed interest in spending more time shooting and practicing because of this incident. I was very glad to hear that.

Capitalize on that. When I was married, the wife was fine with plinking, but not motivated to train. Two instances of ladies she knew having to shoot to defend themselves changed her mind.

Take advantage of that motivation. :)
 
Corpral Agarn said:
I told dispatch that someone was trying to break into my home, my address, and my name (in that order)

The only thing I would change is anytime I call the police from a cell phone the first thing I give them is the phone number in case the call drops.
 
Thanks for all the replies and support, Everyone!
I do think that my drunken visitor thought he was at Tim's place. Our apartment manager said that there have been people wandering into our complex before looking for another one that is close by (few blocks) and looks the same but this could be the first time somebody was banging on windows and making such a racket. I did think it odd that he chose our place as it looks just like all the others and it is upstairs... better us than someone else, I suppose.

If I am holing up to defend my home, I have my AR in my hand (that is the plan anyways). A pistol is nice for the maneuverability that it offers, but 30 rounds of a much more powerful round gives me a much better peace of mind.

That is EXACTLY what I was thinking. I figure that the pistol is the go-to when I hear "bump" in the night. If I have the time, I want to grab up a rifle. Sadly in CA I can only get 10 rounds and, if its an AR, I have to fight the bullet button. Still, though, I wish I had had it with me for those ten. I was thinking New York reload to my pistol after the AR's 10.
Shotguns are pretty darn nice and am ordering an 18 1/2 barrel for my 870 20ga for the wife. She is a highly proficient shotgun shooter. She really can bust those clays!

Thanks again Everyone and stay safe!
 
The only thing I would change is anytime I call the police from a cell phone the first thing I give them is the phone number in case the call drops.
I never gave the Dispatcher my number but they called me back, somehow. I think that they are able to gather that information just from making the connection(?).
Maybe someone in LE can help us answer that.
 
I don't know about Cali, but supposedly all 911 calls are linked via address and land line number. If you call in on a cell phone they will have your number on caller ID. Supply name and address. I am glad it worked out for you and the wife.
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I would suspect the guy was so drunk he thought he was maybe at the house of somebody he knows. I would be on edge too after that incident too but in all likelihood you'll never hear from him again.
 
willie sutton said:
^^ Nothing beats a basic old fashioned 12 guage shotgun in a situation like that.
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Regarding cell numbers, get your location out as fast as you can. Make sure they get it. I was calling in a violent domestic dispute next door to me a few months ago, and had a bad connection (for some reason, 911 calls from me are never well-connected, but every other call I make from the same location is.) The call-taker could not hear my location, or the address I was giving her for the incident. She attempted to determine my location by my cellular signal, but the location she gave me was an address located several blocks from mine.

Get your location out first. Chances are she will have your number already.
 
In Colorado Springs when you call 911 the first thing they say is “911 what is your emergency?” They want you to respond with Police, Medical or fire so they can start spinning up the right agency.

After that I say “My name is, my phone number is and I’m calling from” before I say anything else.

Even though I said phone number first up thread.

Also ACE hardware sells a door brace similar to this http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/dual-function-door-brace for about 20 bucks takes all of 2 seconds to install
 
Great story, thanks for sharing, and glad that worked out good for everyone.

Were you groggy when you woke up? How long did it take you to get 100% alert and on your feet?
 
I think you did good, it turned out the best way possible, cops arrive, bad guy goes with them, you go back to bed.

The only thing I would mention is perhaps your wife should have been making the 911 call and talking on the phone with them, leaving you to concentrate on covering the door, windows, etc.

My question is, did you have the cell phone in the bedroom with you or did you have to go fetch it? After reading other posts I now keep my cell phone on the nightstand, just in case. It had been left on the charger on the counter at the opposite end of the house.
 
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