The best way to test all these theories and conjecture about flame cutting and its self limiting nature would be to go and buy a brand new, current production revolver in .357 Remington Maximum from Ruger, Dan Wesson, S&W or another reputable manufacturer and start shooting!
Unfortunately, we can't actually do this.
Why?
Because every revolver manufacturer that tooled up to produce one (a very expensive proposition since the long cartridge required entirely new and longer frame designs), stopped production in short order due to excessive flame cutting of top straps.
Maybe it was just due to corporate lawyers getting their panties in a wad, but I doubt it. IIRC this was back in the 80's and the legal departments of firearms manufacturers didn't run things as much as they do now.
I think they quit making those guns and tried to buy back the ones that they'd already sold because the
engineers were afraid that flame cutting would eventually weaken the frames enough to cause catastrophic failure and possible injury or death to their valued customers. (Then as now, pretty much all companies prefered dealing with "valued customers" rather than "plaintiffs" or "the family of the deceased").
Incidently, the manufacturers had done extensive testing of their new designs before they released 'em for sale and there were no particular problems noted with flame cutting. Unfortunately, being as how the testers were experienced engineers, gunsmiths and competitive shooters, they loaded up and fired ammunition that made sense. Generally158 to 200 grain bullets and heavy charges of slow burning powder to push them at velocities high enough to reliably drop heavy silhouettes at long range. This was exactly what the guns and cartridge had been designed to do.
The PROBLEM:
Chronographs were becoming a "thing" and prices on them had dropped to a level where a reasonably affluent private citizen could afford one.
Most shooters probably know (or know of) "that guy", sometime referred to as "that nut" or maybe just, "that guy who can clear a crowded range faster than a thunderstorm with extra lightning".
One thought has always held true for this type of shooter/reloader, probably since before they even started making bullets out of metal:
If a fast bullet is good, a faster bullet is BETTER!
The hell with accuracy, sectional density, ballistic coefficients, retained energy, the ability to hit or knock over a steel target at 200 yards or the ability to take game at long range!
Nope, none of that stuff was important!
They had figured out that if you loaded 110 grain bullets in that sucker and stoked it with insane amounts of powder you could make really, REALLY BIG numbers appear on that little electronic box!
And thus died the .357 Remington Maximum.
@ Paddy: I'm pretty sure that the excessive flame cutting on at least one of those Dan Wesson's wasn't due to shooting too many light loads.
I know this because, "that guy" was one of my best friends back in the day.