Stodd,
I hope you have a loading manual for reference. . . ? I know they don't answer all the questions that come up, but they do a pretty good job with most issues we encounter. Also, they help you understand the entire process, and how each factor is important.
I started with Lyman 45th, now use their 49th Edition. Lee 2nd Edition is really thorough with a lot of info on every aspect of the process.
Although you'll get lots of good advice on Internet forums like this one, you can also get bad advice. There's no substitute for an up-to-date manual, and it's not something you can economize on safely.