TrapperJohn,
Wow, what a photograph! I will agree that the subject content of that photo is quite perplexing and quite thought provoking.
If it was taken as a snapshot sort of thing, with not much thought as to the reactions it would possibly provoke, then it was a fluke that it came out appearing so well planned, downright artistic, and challenging to the viewer. If after you saw it once developed and, then you did not realize at least somewhat that in some degree it would probably highly offend anti-gunners (and possible even pro-gun people) on a motherhood type site (I think that it where you said it was posted or linked to) then I think it was poor judgment to place it on that page if only because you did not weigh at all the reactions it might evoke. Now do not get me wrong; I do not think there is anything wrong with controversy. I don’t think there is anything wrong with freedom of speech or expression either, nor with the right to bear arms (except maybe that said right has been infringed and that stinks). I do think however fine those rights are, you should at times be somewhat sensitive to the emotions you are about to evoke in others and you should consider whether or not that is the intent of what you are about to do. I can fully understand how a rape victim could have been somewhat emotionally upset by viewing some aspects of that picture. Then again, I think she still is in need of intense therapy if that made her almost vomit. I think a more appropriate thing to do, other than to condemn you, would have been to ask you what was your intent in taking and then posting that pic. I can also understand how pregnant women, or brand new moms, could be strongly affected by that pic.
If, on the other hand, that photograph was taken with a the idea of showing a certain perspective, or perspectives, while at the same time provoking intense thought, controversy, mild to severe reactions, feedback and so forth – then I think it is a masterpiece. Mike said he does not go out of his way to show off firearms and he does not believe they should be photographed in such a manner. Only my opinion but, I could not disagree more with that statement. If guns were photographed then shown in shots reflecting a more everyday sort of atmosphere, rather than movie violence, or news violence, then maybe this would help make people more accepting of them. I have pictures of my son, at a young age, maybe 7 – 9 years old, holding a shotgun, dressed up in fall clothing, with the fall foliage in the background, as if he is ready for a hunt. The shotgun is obviously WAY too big for him. Nice shot, I love it and so did anyone who saw it, even some antis. My shot while possibly a bit controversial to some, was viewed as basically harmless cuteness to others. The shot in question of an armed deadly serious looking man with arm around a smiling pregnant woman’s neck (or upper chest) is to say the least challenging to interpret. Someone might say: “So what? Let it provoke thought!†Ok let’s do just that. I think that is fine but it is also good to do it in a sensitive manner (beforehand) or at least a level headed manner (when challenged). You did very well being level headed in regard to the challenges thrown at you.
Once it did provoke thought and feedback, then the way the photographer or persons pictured replied to the feedback was extremely important if viewed from the issue of the right to bear arms, the joy of pregnancy and childbirth, combined with the right to protect loved ones, the satisfaction of a loved one knowing he or she is protected by the other half and so forth. The reply, given by you to those who left feedback on the site to which the photo was linked, was a good response. Your reply does much to take the mystery out of the aura of that photograph while at the same time still motivating thought and controversy. It also supports the rights to keep and bear arms and, to defense of loved ones, in a striking manner by which I have seen few other photos do it. Of course a different reply from you regarding the same picture could have led to a vastly opposed interpretation of that shot such as if you had you given an answer like : “go f- yourself, we like guns†to they who gave feedback on it.
As for me, I find the shot truly fascinating from an artistic, psychological, philosophical, thought provoking, family loving, and gun loving standpoint. Had your wife expressed another feeling other than one of being at ease and happy, it would not have been quite so controversial thought provoking. For instance, had she expressed fear, anger, or pain, it readily would have looked like a hostage situation of one of the worst types. That easy smile on her face, that sensing and caring hold she has of her belly, combined with the pregnancy, combined deadly serious look on your face, combined with the gun pointed at the viewer (not at the photographer as someone else stated) is just downright as effective a shot as you could have produced to stimulate controversy and thought while keeping the viewer baffled as to the meaning of the content. It is a Cover Piece kind of photo for a cover story in some large circulation magazine. For instance it would fit one of the NRA publications. Better yet, it would be seen by many, many more in a really large circulation magazine that the general public would see on newsstands such as GQ or Esquire. While many of the readers of this site may not agree with the type of articles that appear in either of those mags I know that a magazine like Esquire may well publish that pic if you also send them an accompanying well written article. After all, that mag is the one that published ‘A Letter from An Angry Reader’ quite some years ago which told of the conversion of a screaming antigun liberal into a somewhat conservative pro self defense gun owner. Your pic has raised some thought so far, think of how much more it could motivate if in the right medium. Whatever you do with that pic, treasure it always; and keep that family of yours safe and sound.
Best regards,
Glenn B