Great Post!
I was never a gun guy until recently. Three things contributed to owning firearms. First, the extended family hunted and owned firearms, although, it was never anything extensive. I have memories of the grandparents house and going hunting while visiting. Second, my daughter joined the Marines and I thought it would be nice to go and shoot at the range. Third, the recent SCOTUS decision and the discussions leading up to it, really got me thinking. I now think of it as my civic duty. I am over the hill as far as the militia requirements, but I can at least provide arms for those in my family that aren't, lol.
I dreamt of flying since I was 12, took lessons along the way and finally got my license in my 30's. One of the contributing factors was that my uncle would give me his EAA magazines when he was finished with them. I have always wanted to build one. I owned a Cessna 150 and a couple of 140's. One of my friends got bitten by the flying bug and got his license. He had an FFL license and had a few pistols at the hanger. I say had, he has since passed away.
I remember being out at the airport one day and discussing the trouble I was having with my wife. The owner of a Navion told me to get rid of the wife, and take care of the plane. I did not listen and now have neither. I am now spending my disposable income on three things, the girlfriend, the Victorian house, and shooting sports. I don't have enough for the plane at this time; although, I think of it often. AVGAS??? Buy a plane that can be STC'ed for Auto Gas. My 150 was and I never had any problems. Even though I am a licensed A&P, the cost of rebuilding an engine is still expensive (cost of parts). I rebuilt the Continental for the 150 for a cost of about $3K in parts 15 years ago. Gotta be more now.
Why guns and planes. I think of it as a mindset. I do not think of pilots as a fearful group. Basically, more like the rugged individuals that the country was founded by. Gun ownership for this kind of individual is only a natural extension of rugged individualism. For me, being a mechanically minded person, as posted before, the simple mechanics of the firearm appeals to me. There is a beauty to it, just as there is a beauty to the flying sport.