There's a very simple solution to this.QuickDraw said:"Californians have ruined my state,don't come here" threads....
Once you move away from California, stop being a Californian.
Don't try to tell the locals how to do things. Shut up and listen. Watch. Learn. Listen some more. You left California because it didn't suit you anymore. Don't try to import California anything to wherever you move. The locals don't want it. If they did, they'd move to California themselves, because the weather is better and so are the salaries.
After you move, don't gripe about the weather (we all know Cali's is better), the food (yeah, no one does fresh salads like Californians do), or the smoke in public restaurants (apparently the locals like it that way; after all, the restaurants are still in business).
Wait at least five years before expressing an opinion about local politics ... and more than that if you cannot name the mayor & city council people when presented with photographs, or if you can name only the governor but none of his/her staff!
Wait at least 10 years before allowing any sentence that begins, "In California, they ..." to pass your lips. And never, ever, ever begin a sentence with, "In California, we ..."
Follow those rules, and no one will care where you used to live. Break them, and you'll get an earful from the locals. Trust me on this.
pax
an EX-Californian in WA state
California is a nice place to live - if you happen to be an orange. -- Fred Allen