Perhaps I could help you understand why the .38 is better than the 9mm instead.
1) I have revolvers chambered for it - I have no 9mm semi-autos.
2) A .38 revolver doesn't short-stroke, stovepipe, or fail to feed. When you load .38's in the cylinder, there they are.
3) Flexibility. My revolvers will fire a .38 round with any bullet nose shape, seated flush or way out, any reasonable powder charge, wax, plastic, as long as I can fit it in the cylinder, it'll fire. Also, .357 revolvers will also fire .38's. Can you fire 9mm ammo out of a .40?
4) 6 rounds is plenty enough if you hit what you aim for.
5) .38 rounds fit perfect in the loops of my leather cartridge belt. 9mm rounds always slip through and fall out.
All that said, I'll stand and fight for your right to choose a 9, just now you know why the .38 is better.
Parker, prepared to withstand abuse...