I can explain the 38/357 thing.
You've shot 22LRs before, right? If you're not intimately familiar with 'em, go grab one and look at it. (Or a 22short, they work the same way.)
The exposed part of the bullet is the part that is going to contact the barrel and is the SAME width as the shell. There's a "stub" at the rear of the bullet that is narrower and backs into the shell. But other than that, the 22LR *shell* is the same width as the bullet.
That's called a "heeled bullet". It's very archaic, it's how a lot of early metallic cartridges were built, such as the 44 Henry rimfire, and the earliest ancestor of the 38Spl. The only surviving "heeled ammo" is the 22LR/22Long/22Short family - the 22Magnum on the other hand is rimfire, but the shell is fatter and the projectile backs fully into it just like everything else.
So anyways, those really early 38s were really 38cal at the bullet, 38cal in the barrel and 38cal wide at the shell.
Heeled bullets were mostly abandoned because if the round is backed into the shell, the shell protects a layer (or bands) of lube on the bullet. The modern style is also sealed better against moisture, and resists having the round dislodge from the shell.
As the 38 round was modernized, the shell width was retained but the bullet diameter was dropped so it could back into the shell, and the barrel shrunk to match. But for marketing purposes, they didn't want to admit they'd dropped from a 38 to a 36.
Until in 1937, some marketing genious came up with the magic words "THREE FIFTY SEVEN MAAAAAGNUM, BABY!" and honesty (sorta) returned
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The 45LC was never heeled, it was in fact one of the first of the modern-type "backed into the shell" types (1873). So the bore numbers always were honest. 44s on the other hand started as the previously mentioned 44 Henry Rimfire heeled, and suffered the same "bore reduction" that the 38 went through (for the same reason) and is now .429.