The issue is not whether the .22 is a proper defensive caliber but with the "know it all" approach your gun jock had. Sadly, for many, gun ownership and being pro 2nd ammendment seems to bring out the macho in them. It is not thoughtful, and it is certainly not wise. These people do damage to the pro gun cause rather than help.
By the way, if you are killed as a result of being shot with a .22, you are just as dead as if you'd been shot with a .45
What I was trying to say is that the know-it-all goes both ways....well to really take that deer you need 375H&H....and other flat stupit things I have over heard.
The large caliber thing is a real biggie....and going to women is an even bigger....as most women are new to this area.
I tried to give women what they need, not what they want or what their idiot boy friends said they need. Half of these women can't work the slides on the 40's and 45's they bought. Get confused on the safety systems....
no mam what I think you need is this LCR....but my boyfriend says I should get a glock. Ok....here you go, be careful....Oh I will be I have classes here tomorrow it will be my first time ever shooting a gun.....god help you mam....enjoy that new 10mm...and you will find out just how "hard it hits"...and why even the FBI said to he!! with this.
Then if I did work a Saturday......they would come up from a break....my gosh this hurts my hand....yes mam I tried to tell you it would....is there anyway you can make it not kick so hard...no mam....my gosh I don't know if I can do this....well you only have to shoot 100 rounds to qualify for your CCW, plus the class practice, so really about 150......150!!!!....there is no way I can do that.....is there anything else we can do....well like I said yesterday I do have rental guns available but they are all out now due to the ccw class....you could have reserved one yesterday, but your boyfriend talked you in to buying that yesterday......oh....well can I trade this one in....yea but now it is used....I can't give you anything near what you paid for it....I will have to resell it for a profit....I understand....you could try to sell it yourself but there are some risks there.....
on and on.....sorry I babbled.
But bottom line the stores actually pushed selling the larger guns....more money in them....more profit for the store.....This woman finally got herself a little Bersa 380 with a CT grip set on it....she likes it fine.
These people...meaning new gun people, and some old....really have NO IDEA what these bullets can do....they only poke holes in paper....go shoot a watermelon....an apple...orange. See just what that does....it really puts the power into the guns vs a hole in paper that looks like it was made by an hole punch.
So many really have no idea on the power they have at the end of their fingers, and clerks for the most part don't help them.