Thanks for the replies, in a few cases the replies were not what I expected but it is enlightening just the same.
ugaarguy, Thanks for your input. My experience is worlds apart from yours. Of those I've discussed the issue with I'd say about 25% are anti's but most are far from vocal about it and don't consider it a high priority issue. I've talked to fewer, maybe half as many, people at the "strongly pro 2A" end of the spectrum and the majority were very outspoken about it. I'd say the vocal ones cancel each other out and represent about 10% at each of the far ends of the spectrum. If my guess about your screen name is correct, I'd guess we are coming from very different perspectives in geography and, possibly, age. This may explain our different observations.
Walkalong, I hope you don't mind that I've used your words in this way. I am not trying to make any sort of statement based on what you wrote, I just felt it might be a good jumping off point for an intelligent conversation.
Vamo, The problem with most politicians is that they are always looking to be reelected. Not much chance of that unless you appease both sides. That's one of the reasons that I've put a little thought into what might make both sides relatively happy.
Sock Puppet, No offense taken, but LOL, I am not suffering from a lack of convictions, I just refuse to follow a single party platform or group. Depending on the issue, I may agree with either the conservatives or the liberals, I probably average out at 50-50 so I consider myself a moderate. My idea of individual liberty involves thinking for yourself rather than being a sheep (or puppet) for one group or the other. I usually assume that those who are easily pidgin-holed as either a conservative or a liberal must have been given those views rather than coming up with them on their own. No offense intended, of course.
BTW, If you think you've identified my "prism" from the little bit I've posted here, you certainly won't ever be in a position to call me narrow-minded.
AlexanderA, Polarization is indeed the problem, and not just in this area but in many parts of American society. At the rate we are going it will be a significant part of the last chapter of "The Rise and Fall of the United States of America." That's not a book that I want to see written and the only option is for Americans to learn to work together again.
Midwest, There are bad laws proposed every day and there are already plenty of bad laws on the books. I don't see the "all laws are bad" attitude as a viable way to get anything repealed or prevent new laws from coming into existence. Ironic that you should use NJ as an example, but yes, I am looking at this from the point of view of someone who is hoping to regain some rights, probably a more difficult task than just keeping those rights in the first place.
psyopspec, Yes, playing for "all or nothing" gives you a 50-50 chance of ending up with nothing. Those of us in 8 or 9 states have a big hill to climb and without some constructive dialog there will be no improvement. One of the thing I was hoping to feel out was the prevalence of us "middle-grounders." I guess we are only common in these few states. That's a shame, it would be nice to think someone had our backs. And that's a problem for me, it's a fight I'm willing to get involved in in Trenton, but I don't have much to work with.