Ouch, first revolver and you bought a 2" small-framed snub in .357mag?!
I love .357mag. I shoot it all the time, until I got my .41mag it was my favorite caliber. I got rid of my Taurus 605 because shooting magnums out of it was far from pleasant. Until you are used to the recoil I suggest shooting only .38s out of it for a while, maybe get a used medium-framed .357mag as well, and then after some experience with revolvers (and magnums) start trying this gun with magnums. If you don't follow my advice, don't blame the fact that it isn't fun to shoot on revolvers and do give revolvers another chance. Small J-frame sized guns are the hardest to shoot competently. Magnums out of such a light and small gun aren't pleasant. Basically, short of the lightweight snubs, you have the hardest gun and caliber combination to get used to and get good with. Give it time, start slow (.38spl), pick up or rent other revolvers, and slowly work into the magnums out of the snub. If you don't like it with magnums, that gun will take lifetimes (yours and your children's) of use with .38spl and .38+P.
Oh, you do have a pretty good gun though and small snubs are a "staple" that every gun owner should have at least one, if not more.