crazyjennyblack
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A friend of mine had an experience with a potential hold-up a few weeks ago, and I thought I might write about what he told me and the things he learned.
He went shopping late at night (2am). He's been through a divorce this last year, so he was in a bad mood, and went out to clear his mind before going to bed. He normally carries, but he didn't for some reason that night. My friend is also not a big guy – nobody would ever mistake him for a football player, so his main form of defense is a pistol, not physical strength. As he walked in to Walmart, a guy stepped out behind his back in the parking lot and asks “Hey man, can I see your wallet?” while holding a small pistol. My friend turns around quickly, stares at him, and says simply "Bad choice" while taking a step or two toward the guy. The guy with the gun put it away, said “nevermind, I thought you were someone else” and ran off. My friend told me at the time even though he was unarmed, he was so mad at life in general (and didn't care if he lived) he would have taken the guy on in spite of the weapon.
The lessons I take from my friend's encounter are the following:
1. If you're PO'd at the world and people see it, they might not want to mess with you.
2. Mindset over Toolset. My friend had no toolset at all, but his mindset at the time was “I’m gonna REALLY mess up your day.” It worked.
3. The day you FORGET your gun is the day something will happen.
4. The day you mess up on your situational awareness is the day someone gets the drop on you. My friend was too deep in his emotional funk to remember his weapon and pay attention to the guy slipping up behind him. It could have ended badly.
He went shopping late at night (2am). He's been through a divorce this last year, so he was in a bad mood, and went out to clear his mind before going to bed. He normally carries, but he didn't for some reason that night. My friend is also not a big guy – nobody would ever mistake him for a football player, so his main form of defense is a pistol, not physical strength. As he walked in to Walmart, a guy stepped out behind his back in the parking lot and asks “Hey man, can I see your wallet?” while holding a small pistol. My friend turns around quickly, stares at him, and says simply "Bad choice" while taking a step or two toward the guy. The guy with the gun put it away, said “nevermind, I thought you were someone else” and ran off. My friend told me at the time even though he was unarmed, he was so mad at life in general (and didn't care if he lived) he would have taken the guy on in spite of the weapon.
The lessons I take from my friend's encounter are the following:
1. If you're PO'd at the world and people see it, they might not want to mess with you.
2. Mindset over Toolset. My friend had no toolset at all, but his mindset at the time was “I’m gonna REALLY mess up your day.” It worked.
3. The day you FORGET your gun is the day something will happen.
4. The day you mess up on your situational awareness is the day someone gets the drop on you. My friend was too deep in his emotional funk to remember his weapon and pay attention to the guy slipping up behind him. It could have ended badly.
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