Living your life in fear.

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The Tourist

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I'd like to adress an issue that deals with us in America as gun owners. It seems that most times the world is plotting to defame us and take our firearms and every tick of the clock brings doom.

I don't think so, and I'd like to advise you to have no fear.

First off, I'm older. There is no true fear out there, and that took me decades to define. If you're going to take one snatch of advice from me, quit worrying. Speak as you want, dress as you want, don't care so much what people think and quit lying! You'd be amazed at how your blood pressure drops.

Two little vignettes, both involving law enforcement.

Two weeks ago it was a muggy scorcher here in Dane County. One of the sheriff's Harleys simply crapped. I was there to see it hauled in on a flatbed.

I talked to the motor officer as I was about to leave, and joked, "Turn your back, I'm about to light this up." (My bike's drivetrain is almost all Screaming Eagle.)

The sheriff snorted, "Do I look like one of the State boys, let me hear it, I'm sure as heck done for the day." Imagine that. A human.

So I cranked over Black Betty and we both shared a good laugh. How many of you guys drive in the "halo zone" simply because you see a cop in traffic?

Last night I stopped when I saw our neighborhood officer sitting on his driveway stoking one of those portable fire pits. He was enjoying the evening with his wife and BIL. He never said one word about my pipes, my knife or my business, despite knowing first hand about all three.

Over the past few weeks we have discussed mall ninjas, Obama's chances to become the Fouth Reich, nuances in NICS, getting caught with your CCW pistol, when to hold 'em, AR's for the end of time--ideas most of us at THR heed in living their lives as gun owners. What we don't talk enough about is 'how' to live this life.

I've decided (for quite some time now) not to care anymore. What does it offer? How can I be of any use to you? Why should you care for my opinion if I'm afraid to actually apply that concept?

I watched Joe Fosse the night that the supposed assault rifle ban was discussed in Congress. He laughed. He told the reporter that these things come, and then they go. And that's exactly what happened.

Stop worrying.
 
AWB came and went? Ask a NY resident that....or MA...or never mind.

Since you're in WI, care to venture all around town open carrying? Let us know how your court hearing goes.
 
Excellent advice! I don't worry when things work out as could be expected and I don't overestimate others' power over me. Plenty of people acting out of fear end up with what they claim they don't want.
 
I watched Joe Fosse the night that the supposed assault rifle ban was discussed in Congress. He laughed. He told the reporter that these things come, and then they go. And that's exactly what happened.

Barely.

Just Barely.

The AWB really could have been a "sensible 'first' (ie next) step" in a long march trampling out robust gun rights.

RKBA really was hanging by a thread for a long time there, and but for the action taken by America's gunnies, it would have been long gone by now.

To some extent, your point that folks worry too much is sound, there really is a lot of jumping at shadows.

On the other hand, complacency nearly did us all in on a national level, and in some places, like NJ, it did do us in: in a land where perhaps 1 in 100 people understand what robust gunrights are and why they must be, RKBA there is toast.

There is a balance.
 
You can also bet that after the next major CONUS probe by our Jihadist nutcase enemies that a whole bunch of "safety" stuff is going to get voted in... And I'll bet that there's a whole new AWB waiting in the wings that we haven't seen yet. It's what I'd do if I were them.
 
The OP makes some valid points, IMO, but if the overall message is "Don't worry, everything will be fine" then I'm not buying. While it's true that some of the doomsday fantasies espoused re. gun control are a bit silly, all one has to do is look at the state of gun laws in 1920 vs. the state of gun laws today to understand that it is very, very possible to lose substantial gun rights.
 
If you don't care about what gun legislation comes down the pipes, you'll get the legislation that the people who care want. Hopefully all the pro-gun people won't throw in the towel. Thanks to people like Dick Heller, Alan Gura, and Robert Levy not having developed an apathetic attitude we've just recently won a tremendous victory for gun control rights. Don't give yourself ulcers, but when you quit caring all together don't be surprised if you don't like what you eventually get.
 
I don't think he said not to care

As a fellow Badger my worry quotient is down there almost out of sight but I care, I agitate, I write letters and talk to anybody who will listen and I vote. I'm to old to worry about what our Liberal Fiends from Milwaukee or Madison want to do to me but it doesn't mean I don't care or haven't stopped working. (no that wasn't a misspelling)
 
I don't worry about too much anymore, no point in it.

Think about it this way fear is good for business. People worry about this and that, scared of this and that. They spend money to alleviate their fears. The more money spent, the more power shifts.

Take the war on drugs, war on terror, war on gangs, war on____________. Insert whatever flavor of the month.

Ban certain gun types, BAM immediate demand, prices go up.

The single biggest issue that I have seen is this:

As time goes on, less and less people genuinely know anything.

On second thought, that is kind of scary.
 
I agree with the general message. There are a lot of people who want to tell others what they can and can't do, own, or say (not just with RKBA issues), and have the government enforce it with punishments. Most of it never sees the light of day. There will always be whiners who think they know best.
However, those people don't stop pushing, so we can't stop pushing back. It's a political tug of war and you don't want to let go of the rope.
It seems that the majority of the public is coming around and seeing things with a less biased point of view which is good. When you pick up momentum you need to keep it going. We lost a lot of rights over the past 75 years and have a long way to go.
 
and I'd like to advise you to have no fear.

Sorry, no can do. If you'd said "have SOME fear, but don't let it dominate your life" - then sure.

I respect that you're older, and that the "jack booted thugs" haven't come for us all yet. Just the poor suckers left behind in post-Katrina New Orleans...

But anyway, while SOME things have gotten better for gun owners (right to carry) some things have gotten WORSE. To say nothing for freedom and liberties in general...

And for that matter, didn't people used to be able to carry guns WITHOUT permission from the .gov?

Right, I get it, don't live your life in fear. But I'm sorry, there IS a threat out there, and we should be at least a bit afraid, and VERY vigilant for it....
 
Not being worried doesn't mean not caring. It's hard for some people to avoid the one and still do the other though.

Old people are cool.

I used to think the same thing. Then I started paying social security and I wanted to dump all the old people on the sun. :evil:
 
i agree worrying does nobody any good.

Fear many times is not commensurate to the actual situation.

Not caring should not immediately be connected to neglect or malice.

Not investing emotional energy into a fight does not mean you will lose it, but focusing on your weakness can be a personal downfall.

Balance can be attained through learning by life experience which sometimes our elders have more of. Learn from it.

At least that's what my fortune cookie said...
Rok
 
If he had just said don't let fear rule your life, that would be fine. But just yesterday I was looking at my father's .22 rifle. He ordered it through the mail from Ward's when he was 13. Try that nowadays.
 
Wheelgunslinger,

Yeah,

About not knowing anything. It's not an age thing, it's more of a society thing.

Education system, media, very short attention spans, types of work available.

The US, once a leader in manufacturing, has outsourced most everything. Heck we used to be the country most of the rest looked up to.

How many folks understand simple physics, we use it every day. How about how a car battery works. Change the oil in your car. The difference between an M60 and an M16. Are both of them assault weapons. Balancing a checkbook. Baking an apple pie. What makes the light come on. Simple things.

People used to be knowledgeable and well rounded. Discussions could enhance and develop people. Our society grew well because of it.

I don't know exactly how or when it happened, but I've been aware of it for awhile. I see it in the skills people bring to the jobs they work, and how they conduct themselves day to day.

No slight to anyone, it's just the way it is.

My 2c
 
I think The Tourist makes a good point. I've never been a biker, but have known and liked them all my life because I spent a great deal of my younger years competing in rodeo - which is another way of life where freedom and adventure is the biggest prize and people who harbor anxiety can't last.

All people who value the RKBA (and other freedoms we enjoy in America) have one thing in common: Even if you've never realized it, the idea that someday we as individuals and collectively may have to face what the men who fought the Revolutionary War faced and decide for ourselves whether to exercise our right to alter or abolish a government that has become despotic - binds us all.

None of us that are of sound mind ever want to see that happen, but once you think it over in your own mind, and decide for yourself what YOU will do, then much of your anxiety may fall away. You have rights, and the framers of our constitution most definitely thought that our freedoms could only be guaranteed so long as people were willing to stand up and fight for them.

So once you decide that your freedom cannot be taken from you, wringing of hands in not necessary. Doesn't mean you ought to ignore everything that is going on because you definitely don't want it to come down to force - you do want things to work out, but you have to realize what must be done if our government gets too far out of hand - not just with respect to the 2nd amendment, but with respect to all of them. Our founding fathers expected us to keep the bastages in line, and it's our duty to do so.
 
Okay, so I'll take you advice - I won't be worried about anti gun legislation. I won't fear my guns will be taken away. I won't do that at all. I feel great. Now that I do, let me cancel my life membership in the NRA, allow me to quite the NYSR&PA. I'll stop donating to The Wild Turkeyt zgederation too - who cares if they were almost once extinct - they came back. I'll anything I do in which I take caution too. Yep that is the ticket to have a worry free life. So let me go out and cross the street without fearing I'll be run over, whoops did I forget to loo....

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Hi Everyone,

My husband Glenn B just started to act strange, he stopped worrying, caring, fearing anything that used to make him stop, step back, take heeed and take action. He just ran out of the house telling me how great he felt, and that he did not have a care or fear in the world. Then he jumped out into the street and was run down by a semi.

I just wanted to let you all know that Glenn liked it here at THR, but for now he won't be back for a while - he is in traction in the hospital. One thing, he is pretty upset for having listened to one of you.

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Yikes

All the best,
Mrs. Glenn B:neener::what::neener:
 
Mrs. Glenn B,

Do you any guns to sell to help pay for the hospital bills? Just curious.
 
I don't think so, and I'd like to advise you to have no fear.


Stop worrying.


Aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Ignorance really is bliss. :)

I mean no disrespect, but maybe in a little place in Wisconsin life is simple and there is no need to worry about much.

But there are REAL threats out there every day in regards to our 2nd amendment rights and it is because of a few that the many continue to enjoy those rights.

I won't make any judgements, but I will say this: if you aren't worried about the future of your gun rights, that tells me you aren't very well informed as to the direction things are headed in this country and the work that is being done to limit, restrict, or just plain erase YOUR right to keep and bear arms.

I may get flamed for this, but to borrow a thought from our OP, I don't care. ;)
 
Well, let's suppose that everything does go to hell. How is my worrying myself into a tizzy make my actions any better, more thoughtful or effective?

This isn't my first rodeo. I was 22 years ago during the first of the serious helmet law action in Wisconsin. There are still citizens jumping up and down to a brisk lather telling me how brain-dead bikers inflate insurance rates. I ask them to show me this hospital wing with all of the brain dead bikers, and the argument sort of trails off...

And it will be the same over our firearms. Be it Doyle, or Shumer, or Obama or the next empty suit, our actions will derive success from care, not carelessness.

But look at the bigger picture. We're called "The High Road." Being vigilant doesn't imply we should work our brothers' lives into a dither.

You know the old expression, "Living well is the best revenge."

And while Chuckie and Sarah and Hillary chewed their fingernails down to the quick last night, I went out for a ride. Took the pups, went to bed a tad early, slept like a brick.

If you ever see Chuckie Shumer, tell him The Tourist thinks he's such light work that the old biker drifts off. He's liable to blow an embolism. Is that a life worth living?

Street crime? I go to the gym, sharpen a Razel and then go find a first class cheeseburger. The streets don't belong to thugs, they belong to me. Does wringing your hands make it better if you do have to fight?

Of course, show up for work, do a good job. If there's a vote, make sure you go. I write letters to the editor--another one got published about ten days ago. Make sure you exercize your freedoms. Don't back down from a fight worth having.

But then, turn it off. I got home late today from the gym. As I stepped down from my truck, I saw Black Betty. Beautiful. I didn't worry about helmet laws or HBO's secret agenda. If those fights come, I'll be ready.

Oh, and I just had four tollhouse cookies.
 
Meet the ‘unofficial patron saint’ of our THR “Don’t Worry, Be Happy” initiative.
 
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