I really dont think there is enough info present here to start making justifications or condemnations. Happens here a little too much.
I hate to admit, however, there are a lot of folks that I think should not have a permit to carry a pack of gum. If I feel like Im having a bad day (getting mad or something), I actually take my gun off and leave it at home. I would rather be killed by a mugger (if it comes to that) rather than pull on someone b/c they cut me off in traffic or "look like they are going to mug me". It sounds stupid, I know, but its a choice on my part to regulate my behavior. I only carry if I am going to a place I dont 100% trust (downtown or surrounding areas). Heck there was a story of someone here in Indy (proud and stating it on another forum) that he reached for his weapon (didnt pull it or sweep his shirt aside, but reached for it) b/c a Walmart greeter would not let him leave until he showed him a reciept. Too many are the Rambo, Kill em all and let God sort them out, death before dishonor, paranoid types that have access to not only weapons, but also the ability to carry them. And, unfortunately, this ability to carry gives them a power complex in many cases that is highly unjustified in ANY situation. They believe themselves peace officers, not understanding that the permit is for THEIR defense, not society at large. If the police have no mandate to protect me (as per that supreme court case, I cant remember), then it is not my job to protect society unless something threatens the constitution (which our mandate to protect that as civilians is very well defined)
I am not saying further screening is necessary or less screeening is necessary. However, individuals should take the time to look at their personalities and deem it justifiable for them to have a firearm licence.
To be honest, I feel this sort of arguement and the OP friend's situation/incident gives antis ammunition for their arguements. Too many people on the planet now, and too many ideas of "everyone's out to get me" (a common problem with congested areas). I have learned ways of looking at my environment, but not being paranoid. FROM WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME (this is my OPINION, not fact, so lets keep this civil), the OPs friend was a little jumpy (Ive met folks that own permits that if you let out a loud fart, they would draw). Its not to blame the system or the permit situation, but potentially the person. However, like I said before, there is not enough info posted to give an accurate view of the situation.
Many times, I believe the Anti's have a few points that are true. This will get people angry, but if I have an anti-friend or family member, I ask for their view point and listen to them. I analyze their arguement, then give my view on the issue (not my OPINION on the issue, there is a huge difference). Too many people plug their ears whenever anything anti comes along (doesnt even have to be guns, any politics) and yell at the top of their lungs. Why not keep things "High Road"? The easiest way to combat that which opposes you is to understand it, by knowing their points of arguement as well as your own (I learned that in college-school
). Know your enemy.