My four-year old daughter's first safety lesson...

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She's asked me a couple of times lately to teach her "how to shoot a gun." However, all she "knew" about them is that "fire" and noise comes from them. So, after a brief couple of lines about the fact that something other than that does come out and can be deadly, I let her see a couple of tame YouTube videos of people shooting pumpkins so she could see the holes that are made. I made sure each of the two videos was short (less than one minute each), and that they lacked any "yahoo" element.

Then, she watched the NRA Eddie Eagle video on what to do when one comes across a gun. She enjoyed echoing the character's rhythmical chant of "Stop! Don't touch! Leave the area! Tell an adult!"

After that, not as a test, but as a practice exercise, I placed a non-functional replica handgun on the bed in our master bedroom, and told her to go there to see if the cat was in there. As she headed down the hall, I also told her to see if there was anything there that should not be.

Moments later, the call came: "Daddy! I found a gun!" Though she did not run out to tell me, she did not touch it at all, and made sure I came quickly to the scene. I told her she had done well, and rewarded her (with a sweet.)

I wanted to keep her first lesson brief, well within her attention span (and that of her interest, which she seemed to hold quite well.)

I reminded her that there will be more lessons, and that I will soon let her handle one and see how one actually works. I have to work that out, as there are no ranges here that host such young shooters. But there are always airguns to start out with..

Aside from actual live-fire, I'd be interested in some of the techniques for "first orientation lessons" you all have used for very young children.

Oh, incidentally, her mother called me just as we were about to start the videos. My daughter asked me to let her speak to her, and when I put mom on speaker, my daughter began shouting "Mama, I'm having my first lesson on shooting a gun!"
I'm still waiting to hear about that from her mom...
 
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Good job, keep up the lessons. Mine get to hear the talk quarterly.
Since you asked for other techniques, I would recommend letting her pick up and handle the non-functioning piece or an actual gun as well. Putting it in their hands in a safe and controlled environment takes the novelty away from it. We were all kids too, and the guaranteed way to get me to look into something was to tell me to never do it. Make it accessible, and make it real and palpable in her hands and let her point it (at a wall in a safe direction and never touch the trigger) and even let her say "bang bang". And of course the rest of the instructions that go with it. Take the mystique out of the thrill of doing what is normally forbidden.
 
IANAP, but much commendation for what seems to be the beginning of a job well done! Addressing a child's curiosities immediately after they begin to express interest is a great way to develop steps toward eliminating "forbidden fruit syndrome".
 
When I first was first allowed to handle guns, I would go hunting with my dad. I would carry a gun, but no ammo. When I had demonstrated that I could safely carry a gun in the field, I was allowed to have ammo and learn to shoot. I don't know if you have a practical analog, but that is what worked for me, and probably what my kids will do.
 
Good stuff. Really, really good stuff.

I could go on a nice political rant right now about the opposite side, but I'll just leave it. Good on you for being a great parent.
 
Sounds like an excellent start to some great memories for the both of you. I started my daughter shooting a 5 with a 22 bolt action rifle. She is 27 now, loves to shoot and still remembers the times at the range with Dad. :)
 
Awesome. I have a soon-to-be six year old and I always pop quiz her on the gun rules. If she asks to see the guns, I oblige and take her down stairs and open the safe. I have not yet let her hold one, and after reading this, I might just do that tomorrow. She loves to help me reload. She likes the pink Claybuster wads I use and she likes to put the completed rounds in the box. My wife enjoys shooting as well, but still does not want her shooting a real gun yet. Which is ok by me because I don't want her having pierced ears yet either. I wss thinking about getting some sort of electronic target gun game to teach her the proper way to handle a firearm before she shoots the real thing.
 
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I was thinking about getting some sort of electronic target gun game to teach her the proper way to handle a firearm before she shoots the real thing.

This isn't a bad idea. Thanks. Makes me also consider one of the foam-dart guns in the toy section. I think even they might come in handy for teaching safe handling, especially when to and when not to touch the trigger.
 
When my kids each reached about 4 or 5, and started to get curious about guns, I had them bring me a "baby toy" they didn't want anymore. Then out came the ears, for a trip out back, for a live fire. When they saw what happened to the toy, they understood implicitly what happens when the trigger is pulled.

I've never had issues with *my* kids playing with guns. Any guns get put up when their friends come over, however, parents are informed immediately "we have firearms in this house", and (so far) each has allowed me to give their children a brief safety lesson about firearms before leaving them for the night (or whatever). Some with older children have even let me teach them how to shoot. And some parents have also got lessons from me.

Negative curiosity is precisely what leads to tragic incidents with firearms.

Take the negative curiosity away.
 
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