Rockrivr1
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My future wife is having a very tough time right now as her father abruptly passed away. This came as a huge shock to the family and as with any family the past week was spent getting the funeral arrangements made. This is especially tough seeing her uncle just passed away 6 weeks ago. I started a post back then about whether it was appropriate to CCW at a funeral and the answer was a resounding yes.
So, with that thread in mind I carried during the wake. A wake where I was standing in the family line after the coffin. I was carrying a 642 in a Mitch Rosen Tuckable IWB Holster in the 4-5 o'clock position. With a suite on, there was no way to visibly tell I was carrying.
About halfway through the 3 hour wake my fiancee breaks a little and starts to cry and leans into me for a hug. No big deal until she wraps her arms around me an firmly plants a hand on the grip of my 642. She picks her head up off my chest, looks me in the eye and says in a rather loud voice
"Are you carrying a gun at my father's funeral"
Ok, let me state that the funeral home was PACKED to say the least. He was a very popular guy and there was a line out the door for the entire 3 hours. When she said it, a whole bunch of heads turned my way including her fathers brother and sister who where standing next to me. I said, no, it's my cell phone. Which was a big fat lie that she knew because I gave her my cell phone when we got there to put in her purse. At least she didn't call me a liar right in front of the crowd. I think that most people bought it except for a few people in the crowd and the brother and sister team. They were eying my waistline all night. Made me pretty uncomfortable.
Then the next day we are at the funeral home getting ready for the trip to the church. The place had about 30-40 people there when my Fiancee's fathers sister asks if we were holding all the cards that people brought the night before. I said yes and that I had put them in my safe. The Fiancee blurts out.
"So you put them in the GUN safe?"
Ok, I know her father just passed away but damn, SHUT UP!!!!
Hummm, for only being together 2 years I'm sure spending a lot of time at funerals with this family
So, with that thread in mind I carried during the wake. A wake where I was standing in the family line after the coffin. I was carrying a 642 in a Mitch Rosen Tuckable IWB Holster in the 4-5 o'clock position. With a suite on, there was no way to visibly tell I was carrying.
About halfway through the 3 hour wake my fiancee breaks a little and starts to cry and leans into me for a hug. No big deal until she wraps her arms around me an firmly plants a hand on the grip of my 642. She picks her head up off my chest, looks me in the eye and says in a rather loud voice
"Are you carrying a gun at my father's funeral"
Ok, let me state that the funeral home was PACKED to say the least. He was a very popular guy and there was a line out the door for the entire 3 hours. When she said it, a whole bunch of heads turned my way including her fathers brother and sister who where standing next to me. I said, no, it's my cell phone. Which was a big fat lie that she knew because I gave her my cell phone when we got there to put in her purse. At least she didn't call me a liar right in front of the crowd. I think that most people bought it except for a few people in the crowd and the brother and sister team. They were eying my waistline all night. Made me pretty uncomfortable.
Then the next day we are at the funeral home getting ready for the trip to the church. The place had about 30-40 people there when my Fiancee's fathers sister asks if we were holding all the cards that people brought the night before. I said yes and that I had put them in my safe. The Fiancee blurts out.
"So you put them in the GUN safe?"
Ok, I know her father just passed away but damn, SHUT UP!!!!
Hummm, for only being together 2 years I'm sure spending a lot of time at funerals with this family