My Grandson was Murdered

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Yep, surely did happen. 25-July-2004 my grandson was murdered by my daughter’s former boyfriend. No accident, not a fit of rage, just a clear cut murder for motives I could not begin to understand. Regardless of the reason Caleb is dead and will never return to my daughter’s arms or my pickup truck. Oh, did I say Caleb was 3 years, 1 month, and 24 days of age before his untimely death?

The investigation took 8 months involving multiple jurisdictions, forensic assistance from other states, and an extradition from California. The perp was taken into custody and charged with capital murder. Shortly thereafter the Mecklenburg County, NC (code for Charlotte) DA’s office reduced charges to first-degree murder, something in NC that carries a life imprisonment penalty. So now we have the killer in the lockup. Bail was set for $500,000 secured which he was unable to raise. By all measures the man was considered and treated as a bad dude.

As these things are destined to happen a plea was offered and the DA took it. The decision was made with my daughter kicking and screaming the whole way. She was neither consulted nor was her opinion solicited. She was simply informed of what would happen in less than 24 hours. On Thursday, 1-June-2006 the perp appeared in court for his plea slot. At that time he plead guilty to involuntary manslaughter. He was not required to state he killed Caleb; he was required to merely admit to killing a child. In exchange for a guilty plea he received a prison term of not less than 24 and not more than 29 months. Yes, you read correctly, months. And my personally favorite provision of the agreement is he will receive credit for 10 months time served. Bottom line, the perp who murdered my grandson will be out on the street between 14 and 19 months from now. It is entirely possible he will be out on the streets enjoying life by the end of next year. Oh, one other fact. Had Caleb not been murdered, he would have celebrated his 5th birthday that same day.

My daughter was something less than appreciative of the agreement. I’m not impressed either. Her attitude is just exactly what yours would be.

Now we come to the documentation. Hopefully all the web addresses are still live.
http://www.charlotte.com/mld/observer/news/local/14721645.htm
Killer of girlfriend's son given 2-year term
3-year-old child died from suffocation; mother raps sentence
GARY L. WRIGHT
[email protected]
Matthew Peter Cotton, accused of killing his girlfriend's 3-year-old son, was sentenced Thursday to at least two years in prison after pleading guilty to involuntary manslaughter.
Cotton was dating Caleb Jackson McCrary's mother and living with them when the boy was killed in July 2004, authorities said.
Prosecutors said they knew Caleb died from suffocation but didn't know how. They said there were no witnesses and that the baby's body was cremated.
Cotton, 30, had originally been charged with murder. In a plea bargain, prosecutors allowed him to plead guilty to involuntary manslaughter. The agreement called for him to receive a minimum of 24 months and a maximum of 29 months in prisons.
Mecklenburg Assistant District Attorney Beth Freeman said that was the most he could have received based on his record.
"It was a difficult agreement to reach because a young child's life was taken. But our office has to make decisions on plea agreements based on the evidence or the lack of evidence. That's what we did in this case."
Defense attorney Susan Weigand declined to comment.
Andrea McCrary, Caleb's mother, told the judge that Cotton has shown no remorse. "It doesn't matter to him that my baby is dead," she said.
McCrary told the judge that she "hated" that Cotton would be sentenced to a minimum of 24 months and a maximum of 29 months.
"This man should rot in prison for the rest of his life and burn in hell after that," McCrary told the judge. "He has destroyed my entire family.
"He needs to die. There's a special place in hell waiting for him."
http://www.charlotte.com/mld/charlotte/news/14721645.htm?source=rss&channel=charlotte_breaking_news
http://www.wsoctv.com/news/9307998/detail.html video
http://www.wbtv.com/home/2915116.html
http://www.wcnc.com/news/local/stories/wcnc-ad-6_1_06-caleb.442f76bb.html video
What is the backstory? A lot is moving around in the background. Events like this just don’t happen. There are logical reasons for what happened. In Caleb’s case the reason the perp got off is simply because the DA’s office is grossly underfunded. I consider it to be criminally under funded but I’ll go with grossly. Here are a few little factoids that demonstrate the situation.

Consider the comments of Tara Servatius, a journalist writing for Creative Loafing September 14, 2005 “Life Is Cheap Here: Where's the justice for Zachary Montognese?”
“According to data from the NC Admistrative Office of the Courts, 42 percent of the murder cases in Mecklenburg County were pleaded down to a lesser charge last year and another 33 percent were dismissed, almost twice the state average. A study by Creative Loafing showed that this county's court system very rarely sends anyone to prison on first-degree murder charges. Virtually everyone who is arrested for killing someone here pleads guilty to second-degree murder or voluntary or involuntary manslaughter, saving the courts the time and cost of a trial. Of the 152 cases we looked at between 2001 and 2003 in which a defendant was sentenced, only three were sent to prison on first-degree murder charges. In all three cases, the defendants - two of whom were in their teens - opted for trials, pleaded not guilty and got life sentences.”​
And
“NC Conference of District Attorneys Director Peg Dorer said the problem is pretty simple. The courts across the state, and in Mecklenburg County in particular, are so underfunded they no longer have the resources to try cases. When CL called her last week, she'd just finished crunching trial percentages and found they'd slipped once again. Two years ago, the courts statewide managed to try 2.2 percent of all felony cases. Last year, that number slipped to 1.89 percent.”​

Need more evidence of insufficient funding?
“A recent study by UNC-Charlotte professor Paul Friday of similar-sized areas' justice systems found that Mecklenburg County has 51 prosecutors while Portland has 86 and Austin, 76. The county lags even farther behind in support staff, with Mecklenburg at 38, Portland at 132 and Austin at 108. Mecklenburg employs only four judicial assistants, while Portland's court system has 38 and Austin's system, 36.”​
And
“Compared to other cities and counties, prosecutors are also seriously outgunned. Mecklenburg needs an additional 25 district attorneys and more staff to make it comparable to other similar-sized metropolitan areas around the country, said Dorer.”​

And my personal favorite:
“Last year, at $4.2 million, the budget for the city animal shelter was bigger than the $3.4 million budget for the prosecutor's office.”​

So you see, the reason Caleb’s murderer got a butt-slap is because Mecklenburg County has no desire to go to trial. Defense attorneys merely threaten to go to trial if they don’t like the plea offer. The system is designed to drive plea agreements to the lowest possible time in prison. Defense attorneys are in the dominant position and the prosecutors in essence get to agree to the demands of defense attorneys. And that is exactly what happened in Caleb’s case. Defense attorney dictated the terms of the plea agreement simply because the DA’s office has no leverage once it says it cannot afford a trial. A classic example of inmates running the asylum if ever there was one.

Now why is the DA’s office criminally underfunded? Simple. NC is one of very few states which majority funding of local DA’s is out of state coffers. Every political dust up in Raleigh has an impact at the local level. The city and county do not want to increase their share of funding for fear of the state cutting off all local funding.

A contributing factor is the local attitude of Charlotte’s glitterati. Charlotte has spent considerable effort and money in creating and maintaining an image of a bright, shiny, modern city in the south that combines the best of a “World Class City” (whatever the hell that is) and Mayberry RFD. Why, in Charlotte, Barney has no need of his bullet. Reality is Charlotte glitterati do not want a fully funded DA’s office because that would say the city has a dark underbelly. Well, Caleb found the dark underbelly and the system treated him just like countless other victims.

A third factor is the political momentum in Charlotte is to build things that are bright and shiny and add to the city’s hip-ness. The city would rather spend money on things like light rail (hundreds of millions of dollars from the state, feds, and local). A basketball palace is of high priority funded with local tax money, even though the taxpayers voted against. And my personal favorite is a taxpayer-funded museum dedicated to NASCAR. A billionaire owns NASCAR yet Charlotte agreed to fund, own, and operate the physical facilities using local taxes and bonds. Charlotte is more than willing to throw money at anything bright and shiny but for some reason can’t find the chump change to fund simple justice.

What will happen?

Caleb’s fate is settled. The system acted in its best interests. Caleb is safely in a file folder in the DA’s closed cases file. My mission is clear. Caleb’s death was an unspeakable evil. Perhaps something good can come out of it. At a minimum maybe Caleb’s death can head off the next Caleb. My mission is to exert as much pressure on the system as I can to hopefully correct it. I may well be wasting my time. There will come a time when Caleb and I will meet up again. I have no intentions of explaining to him why I didn’t do everything possible to fix the system that failed to deliver to him simple justice.

Charlotte’s power structure has two poles. One pole is the Mecklenburg County Commission. DA funding is sourced out of the county coffers. The other pole is City Council which is responsible for maintaining the city’s image. The city also has to authorize spending on bright and shiny stuff. The attach text file contains names and email addresses of local politicians. In your spare time would you drop a polite email to the politician of your choice explaining your view of Caleb’s case? Charlotte is very sensitive to public opinion and perhaps a little pressure will change attitudes about funding the DA’s office.

The public official of particular note is one Wilhelmenia Rembert, Vice-Chairman Mecklenburg County Commission. She is on public record as saying the DA’s office has no need for increased funding. She claimed there is no outcry by the population for increased spending. She favors constantly increasing funding for the children. Spend more money on the part of government to help the downtrodden, providing a safety net blah blah blah blah blah blah. Spending money on revenge just doesn’t satisfy the needs of the poor and dispossessed. A classic bliss ninny if ever there was one.

The entire county commission is responsible for the sorry state of affairs not just one person but that one person is notable in her attitude and influence. Mayor Pat McCrory has run repeatedly on providing additional funding but has yet to force the issue with county officials. Commissioner Bill James stood up and demanded additional funding but was met with strong opposition.

Bottom line is Mecklenburg County government is dysfunctional and Caleb was caught right in the middle of it. I could go on but I need to shut up

Caleb will not be forgotten.
 

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Wow.

I have no concept of your pain, anguish, or anger.

In my fair city (and county and state) we have adequately-funded prosecutors who rutinely press for the max. What we lack is jail space. Convicts are routinely released after serving a small fraction of their sentence because ther is no space to keep them and a more dangerous scum bag is waiting for their space. A sales tax increase to fund a new jail (at least five years in the future) is being proposed. I will vote for it.
 
That really sucks and I'm sorry to hear that. There was a time when such men got tree rides for their misdeeds.

I think the thoughts most readers are thinking right now certrainly brings my comments in the Dirty Harry thread into sharp contrast.
 
Disgusting. People get more time in prison for not filling out tax forms properly. What the hell has this country come to?

The government only cares about itself and getting at your dollars to spend on itself.

:cuss:
 
This being the High Road, I would never advocate the following. However, I know of one case, almost 30 years ago, when the grieving husband and father of a wife and two small girls who were raped and murdered posted himself on the roof of a building overlooking the courthouse entrance, armed with a scoped rifle. He was quietly apprehended by the Sheriff's Department, not once, but twice.

In the end, the two murderers came to a nasty end. One in the 1980 New Mexico prison riot, and the other in an out-of-state facility where he had been sent for his protection.

There is honor among thieves, and criminals don't like those who kill little children.
 
I am so sorry for your loss.
Words cannot convey my condolences to you, your daughter, the family - everyone. Words cannot convey my feelings - period.


Locally - we too are having "jail space" problems, then again we have for a long long time.

Crime rate is up, and Homocides are UP big time. The local mayor flat said courts are kicking out folks for lack of jail space, and these murderers and such, just commit more of the same, or worse.


<will keep comments to self>

Steve
 
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I am very sorry for your loss and the hurt inflicted on your family by the people who are supposed to protect us.

If I may suggest, send this information to Bill O'Reily at Fox News. We laughed at him over his stance on the "instructor" who shot himself, but he is a Champion for Children. Cases like this need to be brought to national attention.

The animal may get his just reward in prison. It is a shame that we have to hope for that and not see things taken care by the people who are charged with that responsibility. Our Judicial system is a mess.
 
You and yours will be in my prayers. The ambulatory fungus who did this will get a prayer of a different variety.
 
This being the High road, I wont say what I feel, only that you are a better man than me because if I were in your shoes I would have something waiting for that scum of the earth upon his release; and it wouldnt be a bottle of wine.:fire:
 
Yes, this is the High Road and we're not supposed to hope that his cellmate helps Cotton to the afterlife in the same way Caleb was. We're not supposed to hope that a shiv finds its way into his right temple. We're not supposed to think along the lines of what Sistema1927 wasn't advocating. We're not supposed to wonder what a 3000 lb car would do to him when he's crossing the street someday; after all "he came out of nowhere." No, we can't think about any of those things because this is the High Road.

My sincere condolences to you waitone. I truly can't imagine how I'd cope if such a thing happened to any of my grandkids.
 
Waitone, I sit here, my lips clenched and my chest tight. I, too, have grandchildren. Not much I can say to ameliorate your grief, but you are on the right track, my friend. Push the system and push it hard.

I saw something recently about how to get under the skins of politicians. Do not use anger and insult. What you need to do is use ridicule; heap it on. The critters expect to be criticized; and they have thick skin in that regard. They can't handle ridicule. Blissninny's are a perfect target for riducule as they give you much ammo.

You'll be surprised at how much one man can accomplish if you are focused.

God bless you and yours.
 
That is despicable. There are only a few situations that deserve vigilante justice, and this is one of them :cuss:
 
After the tears came and went, the constructive advice came up:

The Charllote powers, whose only interest appears to be PR, needs to learn that systematically letting people get away with murder is bad for PR.
 
I too am sorry for your loss. As a new father of an eight month old girl, I can only think about what I would do in this situation, and the only thing that comes to mind would result in a temporary insanity plea :fire:
 
Words cannot convey my condolences to you, your daughter, the family - everyone. Words cannot convey my feelings - period.

I don't think I would have your restraint. I wish you all the comfort that can exist in such circumstances.

David
 
This is so wrong.

I'm so sorry.

I hope your efforts are not in vain.

I feel queasy reading your accounts

hillbilly
 
I'm sorry for your loss.

It is a real shame that decent people cannot receive justice in this nation, for the sake, apparently. of the almighty dollar.

The people involved ducked responsiblity, and should not be allowed to.

God Bless you and your family...
 
Those types of crimes are of the worst kind and people like that guy,should be put in with,other criminals and not into isolation.I wonder what the guards,the Warden and the other cons,will do to him?I am very sorry,that this,has happend to your grandsonyou-do they have the electric chair,or even the good-old hangmans-noose-in your state-for murder?

Then we can watch the others kick the crap out of him and preferably-hang the bastard.

Read,this about that sicko in the UK,called Ian Huntley and what happend to him-inside of jail.
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Huntley scalded in prison attack

Huntley was convicted of the murder in December 2003
Child killer Ian Huntley has been attacked with boiling water by another inmate at the high security Wakefield Prison, in West Yorkshire.
Grimsby-born Huntley was attacked on Wednesday on the health care wing of the jail, which houses some of the most dangerous prisoners in the country.

Prison sources confirmed Huntley had been the victim of the attack and he was being treated at the site.

Huntley murdered Jessica Chapman and Holly Wells in Soham in August 2002.

A spokeswoman for the Prison Service said: "We can confirm a prisoner on the health care wing at HMP Wakefield was, on 14 September, attacked with boiling water by another prisoner.

It's impossible to prevent incidents of this nature occasionally happening

Prison Service spokeswoman

"He is being treated by health care staff at the prison and an internal investigation has been launched.

"While staff monitor prisoners carefully, high security prisoners are, by nature, a particularly challenging group to manage and while staff are always vigilant, it's impossible to prevent incidents of this nature occasionally happening."

Schoolgirls Holly and Jessica were both aged 10 when they were murdered in Soham, Cambridgeshire.

Huntley was the last of more than 500 life sentence prisoners waiting to have minimum terms set by the Lord Chief Justice after the Home Secretary's tariff-setting procedures were declared illegal. Anyone who committed a murder after 18th December 2003 would have their minimum term set by the trial judge. On September 29, 2005 it was announced that Huntley must remain in prison for at least 40 years - a minimum term which will not allowed him to be released until at least 2042, by which time he will be 68 years old.



Ian Huntley was convicted of their murders at the Old Bailey in December 2003.
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The UK authorities are looking at releasing Peter Sutcliffe-who was the infamous Yorkshire Ripper.Whether they do or not-is another matter.If they do,then he won't last very long-hopefully.

Roy Whiting has been sentenced to life for the murder and kidnapping of eight-year-old Sarah Payne in July 2000.
The jury of nine men and three women at Lewes Crown Court delivered a unanimous decision on the serial sex offender after a trial lasting almost four weeks. The judge recommended that Whiting is never released from prison.

BBC News Online brings you reaction to the verdict of the trial and looks back at the case that enraged the nation.


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A picture of Sarah Payne,before she died.
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18 December 2001
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Sara and Michael Payne

The parents of Sarah Payne meet the Home Secretary to discuss allowing restricted public access to the sex offenders register. The Paynes describe their meeting as "very positive" and say David Blunkett has assured them that protecting children was the government's highest priority.
The BBC's Paul Anstiss reports





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17 December 2001
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Judge John Gower denies failing to properly protect the public.

There's been criticism of Judge John Gower who sentenced Roy Whiting to four years in prison on a previous occasion when he abducted a young girl. Whiting served just two and a half years in prison before being released and subsequently murdering Sarah Payne.
The BBC's Niall Dickson reports



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13 December 2001
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Laying flowers after Sarah's body was discovered

The immense courage shown by Sarah's parents throughout their ordeal touched the hearts of all those who lived and worked in the area where her body was found. The BBC returns to the village of Pulborough to gauge reaction to the news that her killer is now behind bars.
The BBC's David Harrison reports



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12 December 2001 - The verdict
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Reaction

Sarah's parents said their daughter could now rest in peace


Outside court Sarah's parents Sara and Michael welcomed the verdict saying: "This doesn't make us happy but justice has been done." They also called on the government to change the law to ensure it does not happen again.
Sarah's mother Sara: "Let's make sure this stops happening time and time again."


Sussex Police's Alan Ladley: "One person will not be able to abduct and murder other little girls in the future"

Crown Prosecution Service spokeswoman Alison Saunders: "We're glad that justice has been done today"



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The investigation
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The prosecution argued Whiting altered his van to dispose of forensic evidence

Whiting's conviction is the result of a lengthy police investigation which relied heavily on forensic evidence. A strand of Sarah's hair had been found on Whiting's sweatshirt, and fibres from his van were found on her hair and shoe.
The BBC's Robert Hall reports on the investigation



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Whiting's criminal history
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Roy Whiting was on the register of sexual offenders

Roy Whiting was already a convicted paedophile before he killed Sarah Payne. Both the police and the probation service in Sussex have told the BBC that they feared he would strike again, but were powerless to stop him.
The BBC's Social Affairs editor Niall Dickson profiles Roy Whiting and his previous conviction



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Sarah's family
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Sarah's brothers were the last to see her before her abduction

Sarah's mother and father, Sara and Michael, were present for most of the trial. But the family had to face more than a year of uncertainty before seeing the conviction of the man they had always been sure killed Sarah.
The BBC's Daniel Sandford on how the family coped with their ordeal

7 February 2001
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A man shouts abuse as Roy Whiting is driven from court

Roy Whiting is remanded in custody after being formally charged with the kidnapping and murder of Sarah Payne. Heavy police security is needed as a crowd of more than 200 people besiege the courtroom for the 42-year-old mechanic's appearance.
The BBC's Robert Hall reports from Chichester Magistrates Court



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18 July 2000


Sarah's body was found 10 miles from the spot where she disappeared

Police launch a murder hunt after the body of Sarah Payne is found in undergrowth near a field in Pulborough, West Sussex. The eight-year-old had not been seen since going missing from fields near her grandparents' home on 1 July.
The BBC's Robert Hall reports

People like this should be hung and not put into jail-by wasting tax payers money.

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How unbearable the pain.

When an injustice happens like that, it is like being victimized over and over again.


I am so very sorry for your loss.
I pray that justice finds it way to you in spite of the "system".
 
I guess that I would be the next one in that county to commit murder. The temporary insanity would last from the day my son/grandson was murdered until the day the bastard murderer got out of jail. Then I'd probably put him six feet under. Two wrongs don't make a right. But, well, an eye for an eye is justice in many cases.

I can't possibly feel the pain you and your family are. I lost a step sister in an accident when I was young. That's not the same. Your grandson lost his life by the hand of something much more sinister. This is unacceptable.

Hang in there. Don't let Caleb's death be in vain. Your efforts to correct the system -even if just by sharing your story with others, should be continued.

-Steve
 
That is so unspeakably horrible that I had trouble hitting the reply button, not knowing what to say.

I had a good friend murdered a few years ago. I understand the almost uncontrollable rage that makes you want to load up a .44 magnum and go after the oxygen waster.

My thoughts are with you.
 
I'm sorry for your loss. I can not imagine the pain that you and your family are going through. This is a public forum, so I can't say anymore on my feeling about the scum that would take a childs live.
 
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