I've been seating jacketed and semi without any bell for a very long time and have never had any problems, so I seriously doubt it has anything to do with the bell. And for a bullet to deform to that extent, I would feel 100% confident that the brass would buckle long before changing the profile of a bullet. Not only that, but if it was starting with that much resistance, I would think it would be shaving the jacket.
I would take a resized case and run it up fully into the press, full ram extension. Then thread the seating die in until you feel it contact the case mouth, it will stop when it makes contact. Then back the seating stem out all the way, place a bullet on the case mouth, run the ram to full extension and then thread the seating stem in until you feel it make contact with the bullet. Back the ram down, thread the seating stem in some, run the ram back to full extension, check your oal, and repeat until you have the case mouth in the middle of the canelure. Once all of your bullets are seated, then back out the seating stem one full turn, then thread your seating die down in small increments until you have the amount of crimp you want, done.
I also load with a lot of nickel brass, and it has not been any different to work with.
Even if you were using a powder that fills the case up, I would still think the brass would buckle before that bullet would mash to that degree.
GS