Wow, I really opened up a can of worms, even though I meant this to be a story-tellin thread - but that's ok.
I'll just say that those who are claiming they would have helped, may be telling the truth. BUT, they would have taken a WRONG action, IMO, because that can REALLY REALLY damage elderly people's dignity! It depends on their frame of mind, but since I don't know how they view themselves, and their frame of mind, I'm sure as hell not going to take a chance on injuring their dignity, since I *do* in fact have an extremely large measure of compassion. Sure, my grandmother was the type that would have relished some help in that situation, but my grandfather, for example, and I believe most men, view(ed) themselves as quite capable, or want to view themselves as such, regardless of their actual capabilities, and as we all know, dignity can be of the few things valuable you have left at such an advanced age. So, am I compassionate? Yes. Did I have the decision of helping or not helping on the forefront of my mind? No. But if I had, I certainly would have come to the conclusion that there's no way in hell I'm gonna piss off these folks and harm their dignity like that. Do I think it's a good idea for ANYONE to help in that exact situation? Men, no. Ladies, maybe. Was I making fun of thier infirmity. No - sorry it came across like that - like I said, it was a "cute funny", and frustrating at the same time. Will *I* be more respectful of other people's time when I'm at that age? You bet your last nickel I will. Are people here being too sensitive - maybe; maybe not - I personally think so, but then again perhaps my chosen descriptive words were in fact a little insensitive to the older generation - I'm sorry for that. But some of yous guys call yourselves geezers and old farts, so why can't I use those terms? Maybe you should join the PC crowd who thinks it's ok for blacks to call themselves the N word, but no one else - same idea. I use geezers and such as endearing terms - in fact, I've said that I myself am an OFIT (old fart in training). So it ain't derogatory - sheesh - everyone's gone PC on me. The general gist of my post holds true - As I said, inconsiderate is inconsiderate regardless of age. Unless you have advanced Alzheimer's or similar, in which case you wouldn't be at the range to begin with. In any event, the discussion has some value.