Much is in your mind...
...I have found that with focus and the right frame of mind, recoil can be controlled.
Don't let the 10mm give you any crap. You're the boss. Go into the shooting session with that attitude.
Take your time. Be patient, good results will come with practice.
At the same time, expect good results. Each shot, visualize hitting the target EXACTLY where you want it to go.
Do not be discouraged if you don't clean out the X-ring on your first string, or your tenth...
Consider getting some snap caps (dummy rounds) and doing some dry firing ahead of the first live fire session. Watch your hand placement on the piece. Make sure you are comfortable with the slide action...how you insert and remove the mag', decocker+safety controls if applicable. Practice chambering and removing the SNAP CAP. Get a feel for the trigger, your stance, balance, etc.
Give it a thorough cleaning ahead of that first session so you are familiar with the takedown process and its "innerds".
Don't go to the range with your 10mm as a stranger if you can avoid it. Develop some level of familiarity with it if you can.
Breathe, Breathe, Breathe.
Bottom line, try to get familiar with your 10mm, follow the rules of range safety, expect to do well, and you probably will.
Good luck, and stay safe!
CZ52'