Again: What difference does it make which pistol I like?
**For the record, I prefer the COLT 1911-series, and I like the Real Commander best of them.**
And so what? The 1911 type is not for everyone. And there are a lot of different 1911s out there.
And a lot of people don't care that much for Glocks.
There are .45s by S&W, SiG, Taurus, Ruger - - I really don't know how many different brands. Like some of the above posters, I strongly urge you to try out as many different .45s as you may, just to get an idea what feels good to you.
If we could get together for a few days, I could teach you how to safely and efficiently manage a Colt Government Model. Or a Glock 20. Or any of several other brands. You might not develop any real AFFECTION for the particular sidearm, but WE could do it.
How? Because I'm a decent instructor, and pretty patient. All I require is that you have fairly normal hand/eye coordination, something approaching average strength, and a cooperative attitude. Not being your military superior, I could not properly ORDER you to follow instructions, but, given a pistol you want to learn, we could get it done. Even if you wanted to learn a pistol of which I was not particularly fond.
See, I realize that handguns are tools, and an open-minded person, as a HUMAN BEING, can adapt to the use of a wide variety of implements. I really like my Ford truck, and before that, I had two Isuzu Troopers. And I do a decent job of driving my wife's lil' convertible, and I used several different agency-issued cars before retirement. I've driven ALL of these safely, and they transported me in decent comfort.
Handguns are, or CAN BE, very personal artifacts. It is only natural to develop a liking for certain types. I've been in some dark and lonely places where I was comforted by Colt's automatics. And S&W revolvers. And a Browning 9mm and Remington shotguns. Almost anyone do well with any of these, given a few thousand rounds and a bit of familiarization.
Choose what you like and give it a try. Don't get all wrapped around the axle if it turns out you don't care for it. And don't let MY preference for the CLW indicate it is the ONLY proper sidearm.
Best regards,
Johnny