I'm sure your advice sounds good to you, but not for me.
#1. The intruder changed both our lives when he made the decision to enter my home. There is no going back from that.
#2. When he broke into my home, he became a threat to my family and whoever else is there with me. I am responsible for thier protection as well, so thier safety trumps my fears about freedom.
#3 Watch some actual hone invasion video footage and tell me how much time the victims had to dial 911 or barricade themselves. Realistic response time for LE in my area is about 25min. That 911 call will be made after I have secured my home and neutralized the threat. I intend to be alive to see how my lawyers handle any mistakes I may have made.