SW40VE is what I've finally decided to carry.
I love the 1911 with a full size barrel but I've seen even the best 1911s with three inch barrels jam often enough that I don't want to bet my life on one without back up. Since I don't want 9mm, and I want an autoloader for normal carry, the S&W is the perfect blend of ergonomics, short profile, and dependability for me.
Almost decided on a Glock 27, pug ugly, but nice. It would be great if Glock didn't insist on making a one-size-fits-all grip that only fits if you have small hands, so I said the heck with spending the extra 160 bucks.
As far as trigger pull on the SW40VE, yep, 12 and half pounds, and there is nothing you can do to change it. I don't care, I've got big hands and 195 lbs of grip strength, I don't find the trigger pull excessive. I do like that, like all Smiths I've tried, the trigger pull is nice and consistent from start to finish, unlike some other's I've looked at, mainly Taurus, though I am not against that brand as a whole, and love the PT1911.
The SW40VE feels fine to me, and the rebate ain't a bad thing either.