Concealed meand concealed, rehashed.
People keep saying "concealed means concealed", but to set the point in stone, here is a hypothetical that exemplifies that statement:
If you are carrying, it is imperative that no one but YOU knows it for the very reason that standers by will react differently if they know you have a weapon—even good friends! Being the carrier of the weapon, the decision to draw is solely yours with no exceptions. If 20 minutes after you told your friend you were concealing and the disgruntled felon co-worker comes in WITHOUT a gun and begins to argue lividly with the manager, what is then to stop your friend from saying,
“Don’t start nothing, so-and-so is packing!”
Or, suppose it is more fine-lined than a verbal argument. Suppose the employe hits the manager, but only once or twice then stops. With no immediate threat to his life, your legal responses with the weapon become much ambiguous with regards to the legality of your actions if the manager is no longer being beaten. Your friend, as long as you’ve known him, may make the brash decision to egg you on to draw. “Shoot him, shoot him,” may be the first words out of his mouth and now you have created a potentially exaggerated situation because a gun is now “known the be involved” by all the persons present when before it was only an irate employee and his fists.
Firearms take a situation to a level NO ONE wants to be in. For this reason, the firearm is the LAST AND FINAL RESORT to extinguishing even an outwardly violent situation. And unfortunately, to standers by who are afraid of the situation occurring, even if it is not life-threatening, may make the firearm YOU are wearing the first resort to dissolve the situation if they know you are carrying one. Brandishing a firearm is NEVER acceptable to dissolve a situation.
The only reason you should draw your weapon is to shoot it, simple as that. Concealed means concealed and the last resort is exactly that.
You’ll do fine and good luck with it all.
Jason