Well, most 45 Auto is already subsonic, so that makes it an easy button.
I’m sure a nine has a flatter ballistic trajectory, but it would be the same with a suppressor with either one, unchanged.
Assuming both wear an identical muffler, the recoil reduction will be the same for each firearm. So the already lower recoil level of the nine will remain more controllable as compared to a 45Auto.
A recoil operated pistol will not increase its slide speed. In fact, the Nielsen device is a spring mount inside a can to enable slide cycling with suppressors on Browning style locking systems. The extra weight of suppressor, and the reduction in overall recoil, absorbs the energy that would be used to operate the pistol.
A 9mm PPC is blow back operated and the increased time of chamber pressure will increase the force on the slide/carrier, which will make it run faster. The same is true for a gas operated rifle, the increased letdown time allows more gas to push the carrier, which can increase cycle rate and also the felt recoil as the buffer crashes the back of the receiver extension.
Fun fact, a 45Auto Carbine can be gas operated or punishingly harsh, blow back operated.