They should be.
Only criminals and the government, but that's redundant.
Her reminder to me after she heard about my hobby: "Don't shoot anybody", with a smile on her face.
Even a guy in a ski mask who just kicked in your front door?
One theory I've seen is that seeing others who are prepared reminds them of danger and the fact that they themselves are not prepared.
Yes, most certainly being in denial plays a major role in their way of thinking and their view of the world around them. In many cases this denial extends to completely and repeatedly ignoring plain facts and sound reasoning against their mindset. :banghead:
People who are unfamiliar with guns are often afraid of guns. I know this because I was once a person that did not own guns and I was afraid of guns until I became familiar. That's why it's important to take out newbies to the range to break the ice.
The stuff about alpha dogs and weak minded people is garbage. I know people who don't own guns who are tough as nails.
The issue is not necessarily inherent weakness, as people weren't born any tougher in the past--it's indoctrination in falsehoods and ignorance that makes people behave as they do today, whether this more generally (apart from firearms) involves weak or dependent behavior or not. And the alarming lack of critical thinking skills in the general population compounds the effect of ignorance--it's bad enough that they don't see, and it doesn't help that they're not even looking on their own (eyes wide shut, as it were).