MljDeckard,
Most everything that can be said, has been said (revolver, lighter springs, different techniques, etc.). You prolly knew all of these things before posting. Here's one thing nobody has suggested: Have her work with a professional firearms instructor. Even if you are a pro trainer, working with family is a bit different. Will she listen to you as well as she'll listen to someone else whose sole purpose that day is to teach her about using a gun? Will you treat her the same way you'd treat any other student? I can teach anyone to use a gun... except my wife. I'm not comfortable giving her orders, and she's not comfortable taking them from me. Hard to break out of the roles we play with certain people.
One last thing that has helped me help others in the past. It's sort of a "mind over matter" tactic. Visualize the strong hand pushing away WHILE you visualize the weak hand pulling in. Both hands have to be working at the same time. "See" the hands silghtly beyond slidelock, then "HIT IT!"
Most everything that can be said, has been said (revolver, lighter springs, different techniques, etc.). You prolly knew all of these things before posting. Here's one thing nobody has suggested: Have her work with a professional firearms instructor. Even if you are a pro trainer, working with family is a bit different. Will she listen to you as well as she'll listen to someone else whose sole purpose that day is to teach her about using a gun? Will you treat her the same way you'd treat any other student? I can teach anyone to use a gun... except my wife. I'm not comfortable giving her orders, and she's not comfortable taking them from me. Hard to break out of the roles we play with certain people.
One last thing that has helped me help others in the past. It's sort of a "mind over matter" tactic. Visualize the strong hand pushing away WHILE you visualize the weak hand pulling in. Both hands have to be working at the same time. "See" the hands silghtly beyond slidelock, then "HIT IT!"