Bobson
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Any time my wife picks up a handgun (which is generally only in my presence - for her reasons more than my own), her index finger instinctively (?) wraps around the trigger.
I just listed two major problems. I'm sure you all caught at least one.
First of all, the finger on the trigger. Second, that she only handles firearms under my supervision, because she isn't comfortable handling them on her own ...which may be good, considering problem #1.
I constantly remind and correct her trigger finger impulse, and its always "Oh yeah" and fixed, but next time she picks a handgun up, her finger goes back to it. Haven't had any mishaps yet, but I can't have this. I need to know she understands how to safely operate and handle a firearm, in the event that something goes down at home when I'm not home.
She does have some interest in shooting, but the one time I took her shooting in an attempt to teach her some basic marksmanship and safety practices, we both ended up extremely frustrated, and it just did not go well at all. Nothing unsafe or catastrophic, but not something either one of us were looking forward to doing together any time soon.
I don't want to make a second attempt, and destroy what interest she has left because I'm not a good teacher (assuming that's the issue...). She is right-handed, but left-eye dominant, which was something we didn't even know until after we got to the range... So long-story-short, I'm thinking she may benefit significantly from a formal, classroom-setting beginner's handgun course. A local range (Shooter's World) holds these regularly.
Would it be a bad idea for her to take one of these courses on her own? Or might it be better if we enroll together? My concern in the latter is she won't give the course the attention it deserves; but if she goes by herself, she may feel more obligated to pay attention...
Any thoughts/advice/suggestions? Like I said, I'm not trying to force my hobby onto her, I would just be really, really comforted knowing she has the knowledge and skill to effectively, safely handle a threat without me being home. We have children and she's a stay-at-home mom, and frankly, this is something I worry about from time to time - even moreso as time passes, due to the nature of my work.
I just listed two major problems. I'm sure you all caught at least one.
First of all, the finger on the trigger. Second, that she only handles firearms under my supervision, because she isn't comfortable handling them on her own ...which may be good, considering problem #1.
I constantly remind and correct her trigger finger impulse, and its always "Oh yeah" and fixed, but next time she picks a handgun up, her finger goes back to it. Haven't had any mishaps yet, but I can't have this. I need to know she understands how to safely operate and handle a firearm, in the event that something goes down at home when I'm not home.
She does have some interest in shooting, but the one time I took her shooting in an attempt to teach her some basic marksmanship and safety practices, we both ended up extremely frustrated, and it just did not go well at all. Nothing unsafe or catastrophic, but not something either one of us were looking forward to doing together any time soon.
I don't want to make a second attempt, and destroy what interest she has left because I'm not a good teacher (assuming that's the issue...). She is right-handed, but left-eye dominant, which was something we didn't even know until after we got to the range... So long-story-short, I'm thinking she may benefit significantly from a formal, classroom-setting beginner's handgun course. A local range (Shooter's World) holds these regularly.
Would it be a bad idea for her to take one of these courses on her own? Or might it be better if we enroll together? My concern in the latter is she won't give the course the attention it deserves; but if she goes by herself, she may feel more obligated to pay attention...
Any thoughts/advice/suggestions? Like I said, I'm not trying to force my hobby onto her, I would just be really, really comforted knowing she has the knowledge and skill to effectively, safely handle a threat without me being home. We have children and she's a stay-at-home mom, and frankly, this is something I worry about from time to time - even moreso as time passes, due to the nature of my work.
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