I am EXTREMELY proud of my wife!

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Sean85746

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...not just because she is a great partner and an awesome Mom, which she surely is, but because she has listened and learned!

When we met, she knew I was a former cop and still carried a gun. She said..."I have never been around guns, but since you have them, I should know how to handle them safely."

That was when I knew I would marry her!

I started her off with a Smith & Wesson Model 17 4" .22lr, and she really liked it. Not long after I gave her my Smith & Wesson model 13 3" .357 (used with .38's).

Now she has a small arsenal of her own that includes, a Remington 870 12 guage, a Ruger 10/22, a Ruger 22/45, an NAA .22mag 5-shot revolver (she thought it was cute), and her own Smith & Wesson Model 10 3" .38 Special. Other than her Ruger...she doesn't like autos.

We were both glad she had the .38 a few nights ago.

I had left the house at around 9:00pm to run an errand to the other side of Phoenix. We live in Mesa, so the round rip should have lasted a couple of hours.

After I had left, she told me she had heard someone trying to open our front security gate on our porch that leads to yet another wrought iron security door at our front door.

Our rottweiler barked and growled once, but didn't bark more. But, the wife got her .38, and paddle holster and clipped it on.

I got home earlier than expected, and as I was opening the front door (making a lot of racket as always), she came to the corner of the hallway that opens into the living room, and I found myself staring into the barrel of her Model 10! (I noticed her finger was OFF the trigger)

I stopped in my tracks and asked if I had forgotten to take out the trash!

She lowered the gun when she saw it was me, and said..."Why didn't you answer me when I askled if it was you?"

I told her I didn't hear her, and she related the earlier "door rattling" incident to me.

I was so proud of her! Had I been an intruder, I would have had six Hydra Shoks in my chest!

She apologized for pointing the gun at me, but I told her she did right. She kept a cool head and was ready to act in defense of herself and our 11-month old daughter who was sleeping in her room.

She recognized a potential threat, and was ready to deal with it. She told me she didn't call the police because the dog only barked and growled once, and didn't act upset afterward.

She said she was in our bedroom when the door rattled again, and the dog "woofed". The dog met me at the door, and knowing it was me, she didn't raise hell and lower heaven as she would had someone, other than I, been there.

It turns out the door rattler was a pizza-person putting a coupon on our outer security door...the type that hang on your door handle.

I married a winner! Though I did tell her to grab the 12 guage next time!
 
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Good on 'er! Yeah, us moms have to be grizzley bears when it comes to defending our kids! And good on ya, mate, for introducing your wife to firearms in a friendly & low key manner.

--Vic
whose husband likes to joke that he married me for MY firearms collection! :what:
 
The best part of this story is the part where she didn't shoot you. If it was someone less cool headed and not properly trained, this story could have a more tragic outcome. Good for both of you.
 
You bet Ktulu!

My wife isn't given to emotional swings. She's a human resource director for a HUGE company, and as such, handles things in a calm, detached manner.

I introduced her to shooting, but I had her get training from a well-known instructor, to remove any feeling that I might be pushing her. It kept the husband-wife dynamic out of it.

She practices once a month, and that leaves me free to shoot with my pals on the other three weekends! The only down-side is I have to spend a lot more time at my Dillon loading for HER!

I am going to start making HER pay the cost of powder, bullets, and primers!

She's getting a SWEET little Smith Model 60 with Hogue woods on it for Mom's Day.
 
I sure wish I knew where to find these gun-friendly, level-headed women. I seem to meet only panicky, helpless (and hopeless) hoplophobes and/or rabid anti's. :(

I'm going to have to start qualifying my dates first. One woman I know was shocked - shocked, I tell you, to discover that she'd been (gasp!) intimate with a gun-owning Republican. Seems she went into the bathroom after the fact and saw the Glock annual and several Guns&Ammo magazines lying on the counter near the toilet.

(Dramatic pause)

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....


Of course that didn't stop her from coming back for more, mind you. ;)
 
Obviously she has not only the 'hardware' part of the equation down but also the 'software' as well. Technical knowlege without common sense and situational awareness is useless, and down right dangerous.

You have to love woman who not only indulges our interest in firearms, but also actively participates.

My wife was beefing a little the other when she came back from the range. Seems that she had attracted quite a crowd behind the observation window on the firing line. She thought that that bunch of guys was being critical of her. I explained to her what they were really watching was a petite female shooting a 1911 one handed at 50 ft and keeping it in a 4" group :what: :D
 
Does she have a sister by chance? How come I can never find a woman like that. :confused:
 
Cool

I must have found her sister.

When I met my wife she said almost the same thing. She knew I was a hunter and into guns, and she said 'If they are going to be in my house, I want to know how to use them.'

Now when we go shooting, it's HER Ruger MK II, and HER Firestorm .380. And, God help me if I try to go to the range without her and use HER .270.

She has evolved from someone who carries only if she going into a 'bad area' to carrying about 75% of the time.

Luckily(or maybe unluckily), she has yet to be tested the way your wife has.

The only two things I would change are her situational awareness(Sometimes, she just isn't fully aware of her environment) and the way she listens to me. It's probably just a normal husband/wife thing.

Nothing frustrates me more, than trying to help my wife out at the range, and she ignores me. But, when some helpfull stranger says the same thing, and she listens...Hey look, I am doing better!

grrrrr. But, at least she is learning and getting better.

greg
 
I know what you mean Greg. That is why I got a professional instructor to teach her the finer points. It avoided the..."Why are you yelling at me...?" thing.

I have been shooting my whole life, then spent 2 years as a deputy, and another 10 with DEA before I was hurt in the line of duty. Along the way, I went through LFI, and Gunsite. I have had great training...but it doesn't make ME a trainer of combat pistolcraft. I am a former certified gun safety instructor, but that is a whole lot different than teaching mindset and legal issues.

My wife has the basics down pretty well, and this fall I am sending her to a 3-day at Gunsite. This is great because Gunsite is only 2 hours from my home by car.

I am going to take the opportunity to do some fishing while she shoots, and stay at the RV facilities at the ranch.
 
Where are you guys finding these women?! Damn! I have no luck!
Well...I do live in California...

Oh, they are here.

You would *not* want to rattle the front door at my house with my wife at home. ;)

Sawdust
 
Your wife did well....but consider a few things...the gun is just the tool...a great tool for defense... but it's value lies within the hands and the mind, and the focus of the shooter. I have lived all over the world...and had the good fortune to be around many species of animals... one thing always was right to assume...the female ...of all species....is much more the wise,intense and focused warrior...then the male....to cross mom in a flight....is the start of a very bad day. You did good Sean...and the true tuff one in the house did too!!!!
 
Where are you guys finding these women?!

For me, it helped that her dad has more guns than any two people you know....combined. Plus, she's more into the target aspect of the activity but also understands the whole self-defense part.
 
Damn, Sean, she's a keeper alright. When I brought my AR-15 home a week or so ago, my wife asked "What's that?" I told her and she asked, "Is that your birthday present?" :p She's not a shooter, (can't) but she doesn't begrudge me my affliction in the least. And she also considers herself well-protected. :D
 
I sometimes try to take dates to the range. If they like shooting it goes well, if they are neutral/open minded it usually goes alright to well. If they hate it, Ok, good bye.

Tsh77769
 
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