Claude Clay
Member
in the time it takes me to type.....
i had what to say re unless you are my neighbor you will plan a trip to the post offfice/bank/shopping or walking the dog differently. in fact, though at the end of the day we will have done similiar chores, we will have gone about it many different ways. encountered different obsticals, road detours that perhaps put us into a 'bad neighborhood' that we had not intended to get off the highway there. if you know the road you will know how to get back on it following the safest path. which is not always as the detour signs have you to go.
so we prepare and also understand that events occure, we give creedance to the 'what-ifs'
the moment i may take to think on something is not from fear but goes to thinking up a 'what-if' and turning loose the sub-concious to work on a plan.
a life long friend ( now in NJ) asked me some time ago, after he'd been mugged and car jacked 3 times--why thes things don't happen to me , 'and you carry a gun and work in the inner city'. took him a long time to understan SA and 'what-if'. heck, even having your keys arranged as you need them on the key ring saves fumbling in the dark.
i had what to say re unless you are my neighbor you will plan a trip to the post offfice/bank/shopping or walking the dog differently. in fact, though at the end of the day we will have done similiar chores, we will have gone about it many different ways. encountered different obsticals, road detours that perhaps put us into a 'bad neighborhood' that we had not intended to get off the highway there. if you know the road you will know how to get back on it following the safest path. which is not always as the detour signs have you to go.
so we prepare and also understand that events occure, we give creedance to the 'what-ifs'
the moment i may take to think on something is not from fear but goes to thinking up a 'what-if' and turning loose the sub-concious to work on a plan.
a life long friend ( now in NJ) asked me some time ago, after he'd been mugged and car jacked 3 times--why thes things don't happen to me , 'and you carry a gun and work in the inner city'. took him a long time to understan SA and 'what-if'. heck, even having your keys arranged as you need them on the key ring saves fumbling in the dark.