You carry a blond with a gun!
No.....you're not the only guy to have trouble with the Thunder .380. I love mine BUT it can be a bit particular and expensive when it comes to ammo. I can count on it to go bang with the right ammo but I can't take it to the range and fire as much as I'd like. And that sucks because it's so much fun to shoot. I shoot it just enough to feel comfortable carrying it.I swear, I must be the only guy on the planet that had bad luck with a bersa thunder .380.
After shooting a number of the new crop, I'm currently leaning towards the kahr p380, as soon as availabilty of the same intersects with my finances.
Most reliable .380 I own? A Beretta model 34 that I learned to shoot on as a kid (alongside a flatgate single six, of course). Never a single malf over numerous decades with that one.
Not the most practical carry piece these days, though...