Pretty good assortment there.
I would replace this item:
With a nice .38 revolver, maybe a LadySmith or something similar. If she has hand-strength issues, loading and unloading a revolver will be a lot easier on her hands and fingers than a semiauto. Load it with .38 wadcutters and you've got a firearm every bit as formidable as any 9mm. Capacity isn't the endall/beall and as an added bonus the ammo is usable in your .357 as well.
Because it's easier to load and unload and less complicated to use, you'll get less resistance to getting her to go to the range with you. That additional practice will serve her better than some fancy laser sight.
Other than that, looks like you've got a pretty good list going.
I would replace this item:
4) .32 ACP Kel Tec P32
- Suzie will shoot it, very compact, holds 8+1 rounds, light weight, but has weak take down power. (I'd add a laser dot to make it easier for suz to aim)
With a nice .38 revolver, maybe a LadySmith or something similar. If she has hand-strength issues, loading and unloading a revolver will be a lot easier on her hands and fingers than a semiauto. Load it with .38 wadcutters and you've got a firearm every bit as formidable as any 9mm. Capacity isn't the endall/beall and as an added bonus the ammo is usable in your .357 as well.
Because it's easier to load and unload and less complicated to use, you'll get less resistance to getting her to go to the range with you. That additional practice will serve her better than some fancy laser sight.
Other than that, looks like you've got a pretty good list going.