i grew up hunting and fishing. guns were always a part of life.
guns for hunting and shooting, not for self defense.
a lot of saturday afternoons were spent busting clays with dad's old 20 ga SxS or making cans jump with his Henry .22.
we lived in a nice area, somewhere between the suburbs and the country. we never worried about safety, and never needed to.
then i grew up and joined the navy. a few years later, i returned to my home state and got a job in the city, and an apartment in a decent neighborhood. I didn't own any guns because my budget was tight, and my dad had more than enough hunting arms to go around.
within a year, that decent neighborhood entirely changed. the nice families that lived in my apartment complex mostly left for the newly built cheap housing in the new suburbs springing up on the outskirts of the phoenix area. the apartments around me filled up with a worse element of humanity. it only got worse, but i was working too many hours to look for another place, so i stuck it out for a while. police helicopters circled the neighborhood almost every night. i'm a big guy, i figured i could take care of myself. i bought a good folding knife and started carrying it, and a baseball bat to hang out next to my bed.
and then one night i woke up to the sound of broken glass. i ran into the living room with the bat, and sent an intruder running. i considered myself lucky, because after reporting the incident i found out they had caught the guy breaking into another apartment on the street, and he had in his posession a bag of methamphetamine and a handgun. i realized that i should not bring a bat to a potential gunfight.
the next day, i traded in the baseball bat for a 12 gauge Winchester 1300, which still hangs out next to my bed. less than a month later I had a Ruger GP-100 and a CCW permit, and piece of mind. i went to the range at least three times a week to gain back the skills i had lost after years of not shooting.
this year i moved to a nice house in the suburbs, but i still keep the Winchester next to my bed and a pistol on my belt.
oh, and somewhere along the road i was introduced to THR (thanks, Britton), and realized i didn't have NEARLY enough guns