What gun for disabled wife - she has MS

i have the s&w shield ez in both 9mm and 380acp. my 9mm’s trigger is way too mushy and long, the 380acp’s is less so but present. the upside down grip safety makes them unrecommendable to a person with m.s. imho.

i suggest a decent 22lr pistol, e.g. ruger sr22, which is lightweight, easy to handle and reliable.
 
My cousin is a very tiny woman ,she loves her ruger security 380 it was the only gun she could operate and was comfortable carrying and shooting. Check it out it is very easy to operate your wife will like it.I have used it also, it seems well made and reliable.Hope it helps .
 
I just switches from a Ruger Security 9 Compact too. Security 380 because the arthritis in my hands made racking the 9mm too hard to do. My left hand is the worst. I shoot right handed. Racking the 380 is so easy that I am amazed. It is also a reliable gun. With over 200 rounds through it I have not has a single issue.

I recommend it for the following reasons.
1. It is easy to rack even with a highly impaired lefty hand.
2. It takes a 15 round magazine so it is highly unlikely that it will have to be reloaded in an incident. I keep an additional 15 round magazine handy. The extra length of the 15 round mag makes for a full hand grip.
3. I load magazines with a speed loader. Most of the work is done with the right hand.
4. The slide locks back on the last round fired. It is an EZ rack gun so it is easy to slingshot close the slide.
5. Racking the slide can be done with just the thumb and forefinger of the left hand by using the groove Ollie’s into the fro good the slide.
6. It has a half-cocked hammer so the trigger is easy to pull.
7. The recoils is not much more than a 22LR.
8. None of the above requires the dexterity that a revolver requires
9. I like the pistol, and I have a thread in the forum explaining why.

TY, great info! I agree about that gun but we haven't found one to try yet
 
My wife started with sr22, used it for ccw qual etc almost ten years ago.

They are very good. If I was buying today, I would also look at the Taurus tx22 or tx22 compact.

I plan to pick up the latter. Pretty neat. Good reviews and 16 capacity standard in the full size (13 in the compact I believe).
 
If she has a hard time racking a semi-auto but can't pull the trigger on a DA revolver, just load the semi-auto for her and leave it loaded and holstered. You were planning on leaving the DA revolver loaded and ready to go, right? It's a least worst alternative. If you were not planning on leaving the gun loaded, disregard this comment.

Now, I know that some will say that this is not good if there is a malfunction and she cannot clear the malfunction by racking the gun. The reality is that most people that don't shoot a lot are going be hosed if their gun malfunctions during an extremely rapid emergency situation.

I have thought of this often.
Does she want to be a shooter or does she just want to be armed?
If the former, all the discussion of easily operated handguns applies.
If the latter, all she has to be able to do is pick it up, aim and fire.
 
Why don't you try a Glock 42? The slide is wide and the serrations are big enough, so it can be racked easily. As long as she can manage the trigger, the recoil is not so bad at all for a sub-compact because of the locked breech. I'm a little bit hesitant to offer you a Beretta 71 - although it's a great little pistol with very manageable recoil (it's a .22 LR), comfortable grips for a female, easy to operate and with a very good trigger, it's a SA so it must be carried cocked and locked. If she can operate the safety lever with confidence, I would give it a try - they are wonderful little guns.
 
My 69yo wife has very weak hands due to arthritis and also no interest in guns and would never consider practicing or carrying. Last week I hand some credit from a trade and they had a NNA magnum mini revolver. It is some kind of special edition and I thought it would work for me when when I can’t carry my normal edc. Well my wife fell in love with it and informed me it was now hers and to just find another one for me. She is already asking about practice and how she can carry it. Who knew!
 
MS has weakened her hands and arms to the point that she can't rack most autos and can't do the DA pull on a revolver. We went and looked at a S&W M&P EZ today in 9mm and she could rack it but said it was too heavy. The sales guy suggested the Ruger Security 380 but they didn't have one so we'll find one and try it out.

Anyone here in this situation? I'd like to at least have it in 9mm but will go down to .380 or even .22 if we have too. TIA.

Racking....

The easiest to rack gun that I have is a Ruger Mark II. The current version is the Mark IV, and comes in a polymer "Lite" version. 25oz. Might be worth a try.

This popped up on my Youtube of Bookface: One of the Turkish makers has cloned the Beretta tip up barrel .380 auto. Girsan MC 14T About the same weight as the Ruger.

Either of them would get around the wife's racking problem.
 
I have thought of this often.
Does she want to be a shooter or does she just want to be armed?
If the former, all the discussion of easily operated handguns applies.
If the latter, all she has to be able to do is pick it up, aim and fire.

For now it's just for beside the bed. I doubt she would go and shoot much, although I will make her go some to get used to the gun and to makr sure the gun has no problems.
 
Racking....
The easiest to rack gun that I have is a Ruger Mark II. The current version is the Mark IV, and comes in a polymer "Lite" version. 25oz. Might be worth a try.

this, for open carry or at-home use.

the ruger mark4 22/45 lite is an excellent pistol. if i didn’t have “enough” 22lr handguns i would get one. i introduced a recent, fully legal, immigrant from asia to firearms. later he returned alone to the shooting range a few times to rent and try different handguns. to my surprise when he bought his one and only handgun it was a mark4 lite. he has put lots of rounds through it, knows it well and has become boringly accurate. a further advantage of a mark4 lite to an infirm or elderly shooter is the wide variety of customizable options, include racking aids and suppressors. it is a fun pistol. several successive pairs of accurately-placed leaking holes in a bad guy is good work too.
 
Valkman - about 20 years ago, my mother had me help teach her to shoot as she was a widow. I let her use my handguns (an Astra .380 & a Ruger Single Six .22LR/Mag) but she couldn't pull the slide on the Astra even then although she shot it well and liked it.
Some time after that, we stopped at a LGS that I knew had a small test range in their back lot. They had 2 revolvers she liked but the new one she wasn't allowed to shoot (obviously). The other was a Ruger SP-101 in .38 Special which she shot there amazingly well. She got that one and we did practice with it but, as she aged, the DA pull got too much for her. I took it to a gunsmith close to me and, because of liability issues, he couldn't do what needed to be done. What he DID do was to talk me through nipping off little pieces of the coil spring in the grip and we tested the pull after each nip. We finally got it down to a level we thought she could handle (she did) until time caught up with her again. This time, I put a small piece of black rubber tubing on the hammer to soften and increase the surface area of the hammer so she could either use the heel of her opposite palm OR the edge of a cabinet to force the hammer back. This also worked for a couple of years until she got too weak in the hands and arms even for that.
That revolver now resides next to my bed with its big brother (a GP-100 in .357) hangs in its holster nearby.
Good luck to your wife and finding what works for her.
 
If she has a hard time racking a semi-auto but can't pull the trigger on a DA revolver, just load the semi-auto for her and leave it loaded and holstered. You were planning on leaving the DA revolver loaded and ready to go, right? It's a least worst alternative. If you were not planning on leaving the gun loaded, disregard this comment.

Interesting. Maybe I should stop being so concerned about the ergonomics of the extra buttons on the gun, and focus more on just the grip and bang switch.
 
While not generally a fan of .32 or .380 ACP, @Tallball was quick to respond with a tip-up Beretta in post #2.

I am a fan of this system, and so is my wife, who suffers from RA, among other conditions. The Beretta 86 is probably the best of the breed, simply a well-made, beautiful and easy-shooting pistol.
 
it’s my guess that a 22wmr revolver is often suggested as an alternative to 22lr for an infirm shooter for protection because “the former is more powerful and more reliable but still a rimfire, so should be easy,” perhaps so the thinking goes. i respectfully wonder if such a suggestion is backed up with personal ownership experience.

i have at hand these 22wmr handguns: a ruger lcr, a ruger single six, a heritage roughrider, a pmr 30. the flashbang is tremendous. to someone infirm and/or a gun newbie expecting a gentle trot it would be a wild gallop. how much of this flashbang yields meaningful result? is one more inch of penetration by a single aimed and relaxed shot into ballistic gel worth it? 22wmr is $15-$20/50, and arguably the best 22lr ammo for protection is cci stinger at $10/50. might not someone practice more with softer and cheaper ammo? are deliberate, multiple, rapid and successive hits with a 22lr better than hearing- and vision-shocked, flinched misses after one hit with a less-practiced 22wmr handgun?

in some hands, chambered in certain firearms and under some circumstances, 22wmr is a superb caliber. a single action, 5.5” or 6.5” ruger single six is an essential outdoors tool (22wmr for business and 22lr for fun), and simply a time-tested must-have for learning and teaching. the rss gives one the option of dialing down to a tamer round as an infirmity worsens. a 22wmr rifle is an excellent all-around long gun that serves several roles kinda well enough, yet as a rimfire flies under the anti2a radar of places like california and new york. so imho 22wmr comes with too many caveats to be a one and done, fast and easy, solution.
 
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One also has to remember that the DA trigger pull on rimfire revolvers is normally heavier that centerfire revolvers. This is due to rimfire primers being harder to set off.

I will say it again: Let her pick out what she likes, fits her the best, she shoots the best AND that she can operate comfortably.
 
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One also has to remember that the DA trigger pull on rimfire revolvers is normally heavier that centerfire revolvers. This is due to rimfire primers being harder to set off.

I will say it again: Let her picket what she likes, fits her the best, she shoots the best AND that she can operate comfortably.

That's the plan!
 
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