True, I might have given up a bit too easily and thought to myself 'to hell with this, why am I shooting this antiquated weapon system, it's not as good' or words to that effect. It seemed pointless (in my opinion) to actually make a conscious decision to go 'backwards' in terms of weapon technology, capacity and ease of use.
You would not be the only one who has given up early on DA shooting, so don't sweat it. Many, upon firing a few DA shots with a revolver throw up their hands and say "it can't be done!" and go back to SA shooting.
I used to be one of those types, but when I heard the "it can't be done" line, I got kinda irked and took it as a challenge!
Actually, as others have indicated it really wasn't all that difficult. After only about 300-500 rounds fired DA, I could shoot DA about as well as SA. Building up finger strength was definitely part of it. After 1000 more, I could shoot DA better than SA. What I have found is that DA shooting acts as a sort of counterbalance, if that is the right way of saying, giving greater control/precision. Assuming the DA pull is decent.
That's the other thing, just because a SA trigger pull is light doesn't automatically make it smooth. What a light SA trigger does do is mask problems like roughness better to the inexperienced shooter. If you want to experience a velvety smooth trigger, try out a pre-war Colt, or long-action S&W revolver. The actions on those guns are slick enough to bring tears to a grown man's eyes.
As for the 2nd half of your statement, well, I do better shooting DA S&Ws than any other handgun platform (1911s, oddly, come a very close 2nd), so for me they are most certainly not antiquated. As they say: software, not hardware.
In the end, we all have our preferences. If your's is SA, there is nothing wrong with that. Though it would be wise to at a minimum build your skills with DA weapons to round out your skills.