It's funny, I always hear people asking, "Why does everyone hate us so much?" Myself, I figured out the answer at about age 8, with some help from my parents and teachers. They hate us for our wealth, power, and oppurtunity. They hate us because we have rights that are protected in writing, instead of privledges granted by the government. They hate us because we are the world's superpower (Top Dog syndrome, as someone else put it.)
Funny, isn't it, that an 8 year old could come up with an answer sought by so many... Many times, it's those same people who want us to bend over backwards to make everyone like us again (not that they ever did...). But then, when you think about why everyone hates us so much, having everyone like us just doesn't sound like a very appealing prospect...
Also, our nosey-ness (is that actally a word?) probably doesn't help us much...