Will they really take it away?

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Okay, in the few days after my incident at bagel pass, I've been doing a lot of thinking, and experimenting.

People are saying a knife is a poor weapon, and for most of my life I also went in that direction. But when something happened that I was faced with an extrodinary opponant, I went for a knife over a stick. Something I thought I'd never do. How would a sharp knife work out in real life against a younger stronger assailant? You hear all the time "They'll take it away from you and use it on you" kind of thing. But will they, outside of a Steven Sagal movie with a script?

Last night, some members of my family did some on the fly experimenting. Myself as the control factor, my son-in-law John, who is a state parole agent, my granddaughter Christy who is a mid teens lacross and soccer player. And a bright blue dry erase magic marker.

Myself and John donned some protective eye wear, and I took the magic marker, and John, who is 6 foot 2 or so and 250 something pounds, was going to take it from me. Now keep in mind, part of John's career is dealing with convicted felons, and he's had a good deal of training on holds, take downs, and general hand to hand and stick work. He's strong as a bull from his wieghts he does.

John took me down in after abut 30 seconds of dancing around each of us trying to get an advantage. I was outclassed and he had me down pretty quick and he got control over my right arm and hand in about 30 to 45 seconds.

But,

When we got up and looked, he had bright blue streaks across the back of his right hand. inside his wrist, across the biceps, and across the face and down the side of the neck. I hate to think if that magic marker had been a real sharp Opinel or even a box cutter. Some of those areas have some pretty important tendons and nerves in there. He got me down, but if it had been for real, could he have still operated with vital tendons and mussle tissue cut? Not to mention the side of his neck where his carrotid is.

It got more interesting when Christy got her hands on the marker, and told her dad to come on, try to get her. It actually took John longer to get a hold on her as she's pretty fast dodging and weaving. He got her by the right wrist, but judging by the blues lines all over John, he got butchered up doing it. Hands, wrists, face, neck, looked bad. Considering that Christy has had zero knife training, I thought that was pretty scary. Just a fast young person slashing away.

Now I fooled around with the martial arts back in the late 70's, and all the disarms we were taught, were long telegraphed moves with a degree of co-operation between training partners in a well lit dojo. What will happen out on the street in real life when someone goes to defend themselves with a knife, and its for real, and the knife is really sharp and in the hands of someone who has very serious intent on harming thier attacker?

Early in our marrige, being a young couple short on money, Karen took a night job while I was home from work and watching the kids, as a dance and exersise instructor at the local rec center. Having been a proffesional dancer when I met her, it was right up her alley.

One night about 9 PM after classes, she was walking out to her car, and was gropping arond in her purse for her keys. A man grabbed her from behind with one hand over her mouth and started to drag her toward the woods at the back of the lot. Karen, being all of 5 foot 3 inches and having to stuff some rolls of quarters in her pockets to reach 120 pounds, was easy to pick up and walk away with. Or so the guy thought.

Karen, being from Harlingen Texas right on the border, and Mexican on her mothers side, was well schooled by a maternal uncle when in her teens on how to use a sliding blade Stanley utility knife. When she was grabbed, she already had one hand in her purse, so she grabbed the utility knife and opened up the guys arm from wrist to almost elbow. He was pretty quick to let go of her and run off. They later found him at the local ER where he was claiming he was mugged, untill Karen ID's him.

The guy made no attempt to take the knife away from her, just beat a trail out of there fast. Another woman we know who used to be 'exotic dancer' in a bad part of D.C. carried a box cutter as her little ace. One night two guys tried to grab her, and she'd been trained to go for hands. Both guys took off, after a few cuts on the hands. Kate went on about her business. Kate is about the same size as Karen.

Now niether of these small women had any trouble driving off attackers who were much larger and stronger than them, and no attempt was made to try to get the cutter away from them, even in the case where it was two to one.

Fast forward to a couple of days ago, and one senior citizen with a sharp Opinel against a 30ish body builder, and the mere threat of being sliced or stabbed stopped the whole thing. The only training I had was when I was 19 years old at Ft. Dix New Jersey knife and bayonet training while at basic training. Been a lot of water under the bridge since then.

I know things get repeated on the 'net, but has anyone really know of a person getting a knife taken away from them? I mean really?

Seems it would be a very risky propostion. A very sharp knife needs only a tiny bit or pressure to slice deep.

Your ideas on the subject gentlemen?
 
People are saying a knife is a poor weapon

What "people"? The same ones that say that you'll have a gun taken from you?

I've spent the last nearly 20 years around "knife people" and longer than that piddling with martial arts. Let anyone play the marker game that thinks they can take a knife from you without a lot of training. There are whole cultures that have used the knife as their primary defensive tool.

Is a knife the best self defense tool? Depends upon the situation. There are plusses and minuses to knives as there are sticks as there are guns. No one tool is the best for all situations.

Plenty of people will tell you a knife is a poor SD tool, but they're wrong. Just because there are better tools in a standup fight doesn't make another a poor tool, just not as good as in that particular situation.
 
I know things get repeated on the 'net, but has anyone really know of a person getting a knife taken away from them? I mean really?

In the early 1980's I was a school superintendent. As part of my community public relations efforts I would ride with the local police and see what they did as well as become more aware of problem areas within the community. I often rode late at night and into the early morning hours so I saw a lot of "stuff".

One night the policeman with whom I was riding pulled over a car and, when he got out, the driver of the car got out of his car with a hunting knife in full view. The driver was screaming profanities and said that he was going to cut the cop right now. My heart went into my throat and just stuck there.

The cop and the driver were both about 5'10" and weighed about 170 lbs. No obvious/apparent physical advantage. The cop walked up to the guy as cool as can be and asked him to drop the knife. The guy swung the knife and the cop grabbed him by the arm, put a move on the guy and had the knife "right now". Yes, the well trained and cool/calm cop took the knife away with no apparent problem.

It was over before it started. No blood shed. I observed this personally so this is not a hearsay event.
 
Some drunk idiot aside, no one will take your knife away from you.

The idea that someone will just take your weapon away from you and use it against you is a ludicrous idea that I see constantly peddled here and on many other forums. The fact is that anyone who is big/fast/skilled enough to take your knife away from you is capable of beating you to death with his bare hands in a very short amount of time. When contemplating self defense I think it is helpful to simply ignore any situation in which you will end up dead no matter what. This rules out pretty much any situation in which someone takes your knife away from you.

As for your other thread, I'll just respond in here:

I regularly say that you should never draw a weapon until you are going to use it. This means you draw your gun and shoot, or pull your knife and stab, unless in the split second in which you are bringing your weapon to bear the threat is suddenly resolved.

I disagree with this sentiment. If I were following this line of thinking I would have killed a guy when I was younger. As it was I simply drew my knife and the guy quickly decided that he had other places to be.

The vast majority of times a gun is used in self defense no shots are fired. It is a good thing to take this into account when considering whether to present a weapon in a dangerous situation or to simply wait and kill them.
 
I think this whole "they'll take it from you and use it against you" is largely rooted in superstition. My theory is that it is a offshoot of magical thinking (using that as a psych term) wherein one believes that by preparing for an unforeseen event, we invite and cause that event to happen to us when it otherwise would not have happened. This "it'll just get taken away" is a flimsy excuse used to justify such thinking.
 
ive always been taught to keep firearms in a low ready because if someone tries to take it away i just simply shoot them off the gun

same deal kind of goes for knives if someone tries to take it away you just "cut" them off the knife

there are a few individuals that may have the skill to remove a weapon from someones hand but 99.9% of the general populous that you will meet in your lifetime ESPECIALY the criminals that intend to do harm will not posses said skill

dumb luck may play a factor but determination is key if they go for your weapon use it and use it enough to stop the threat

ive played enough games to know that i dont have the ability to remove a knife before getting cut or a gun before getting shot and thats with descent amounts of practice

and never underestimate anyone if you feel like your in danger react in whatever manner you feel is justifiable even if its just running like the wind
 
The cop and the driver were both about 5'10" and weighed about 170 lbs. No obvious/apparent physical advantage. The cop walked up to the guy as cool as can be and asked him to drop the knife. The guy swung the knife and the cop grabbed him by the arm, put a move on the guy and had the knife "right now". Yes, the well trained and cool/calm cop took the knife away with no apparent problem.
There's a HUGE difference between attacking someone with a knife and cutting someone who's attacking you.

In the knife sparring I've done, I've found that it is difficult to attack someone and do it without leaving yourself vulnerable to being "cut" or disarmed but it is quite easy to "cut" or disarm someone who is trying to come after you.

Assuming you are using your knife for defense and don't get adventurous, I'd say it's unlikely that someone will take your knife away from you. If they try, I recommend using your knife on what they reach out to you in the attempt.
 
I agree with JohnSKa, it IS easier to disarm an attacker coming at you with a knife than it is to not get hurt attacking someone who is trying to defend themself with a knife or any other weapon. Defense is usually easier than offense unless you are well trained.
 
Speaking for my own cowardly self, the only thing that could convince me to try to disarm a prepared and able bodied adult with a knife would be if he was threatening someone with it and unless it were my wife or daughter I'd think twice before trying it.
 
Can anyone tell me the proper way to hold a knife for fighting? I was told long ago that you don't hold it so that it's pointing forward, like you would a kitchen knife, but just the opposite, so that it's pointing back, or kind of laying alongside your wrist. Is this right? Always made sense to me, seems like it would be far more effective that way, and nearly impossible to take away.

Like how these guys are holding them. I was told you can slash and stab better this way, and maintain better control of the knife. Long time ago, but I think my old former Marine buddy told me this.

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Carl,

Years ago, I and the other students in a Filipino martial arts school tried much the same
experiment that you tried, but with practice knives instead of markers. None of us was able to disarm even the most junior among us without getting what would have been a severe cut and/or stab wound.

I once succeeded in doing the required move perfectly to disarm a friend who came at me with a practice knife in an unscripted slashing attack, but in every other instance, I took at least one "cut" or "stab" before getting the knife.

BTW, the bigger the knife, the more leverage it exerts against the user's hand. With very solid aluminum trainers, not squishy rubber or foam knives, we often saw a knife go flipping though the air -- accidentally stripped from a student's hand because he didn't have a solid grip on it. Your wife's choice of the Stanley utility knife was a wise one: those little beasts are almost impossible to take away from someone!

Even in the hands of an amateur, a knife is very hard to take away from someone. I think the bully in the bagel shop made a wise decision in not trying to take your Opinel.

Stay safe,
Dirty Bob
 
rondog,

There are many different ways to hold a knife. Blade forward, blade reverse, edge up, edge down, etc. Different schools/traditions, different grips. You can find competent trainers using any or all of them.
 
In the knife combatives course I took last year, the instructor had "no lie" blades for training. NOBODY in the class could get a knife away from an attacker without getting cut at least once. The instructor's line was "you will get cut, do you want to get cut once, or multiple times." He also had a training knife that had a built in stun gun in it. That was an attitude changer during training. I think that training is a huge benefit for self defense knife. At least I have something to revert to when the adrenaline dump kicks in.
 
I saw a guy at Daytona bike week in, maybe 91 or 92' (can't remember. sorry.) knock a guy out who had pulled a knife on him.
The punch was as quick as any I've ever seen thrown and was quite precise. Knife guy fell like a sack of potatoes.

Someone doesn't have to wrestle or grapple with you to get your knife.
 
I had a knife taken from me once. It's ok, I wasn't hurt or cut. I was in the Navy and some "old salts" (kids, slightly older than me) decided to haze me. On shipmate had already had his butt greased and this Louisiana Coon-*** was NOT going down like that! It was in a small compartment that they threatened me and came after me. I was 6'1", 215 and not in the mood to "play." When they rushed me I got my Buck folder free of its belt sheath and open but by then I had 4 guys on me in a small confined space. The only damage was a long gash to a seat where they took me down. It took the 3 of them to contain me and the forth ran for a Chief or Officer as I was putting up one hell of a fight! When the officer got there, I still had the knife and they couldn't pry it from my hand and still hold me completely still. Once I saw he was there, I surrendered it as I knew this was over. They took my knife and forbid me to carry one any more and that was all that became of the incident. These guys later found I was a light sleeper and I wound up assigned to barracks duty because "I didn't play well with others." It was NOT a good duty station on that particular ship. After they decommissioned it and I was transferred to another place, I never had any more issues.

Had this been a life or death situation, it WOULD have turned out differently as I was not wanting to cut anyone, I was just trying to keep them back. Once they opened up the can of worms, they just wanted to survive in one piece.
 
I was thinking along the lines of what wheelgunslinger said. Yes, you're almost guaranteed to get cut trying to close the distance and grapple with a knife weilding opponent. But I have reason to believe knocking them out would be alot easier. Still not something I'd want to try against someone threatening me with a knife(and this is assuming I have no gun or other weapon, and running ain't an option).
 
I was told long ago that you don't hold it so that it's pointing forward, like you would a kitchen knife, but just the opposite, so that it's pointing back, or kind of laying alongside your wrist. Is this right?
When I say a "small blade", I'm talking about a typically carried folding knife. I carry a pretty big knife as folders go, but to my way of thinking it's still a "small blade".

With a small blade it's hard to disable someone with a slash/cut and the point forward hold doesn't lend itself particularly well to stabbing compared to the reverse hold. The reverse hold also gives you better leverage and makes retention easier.

On the other hand, you lose a lot of reach with the reverse hold and in a defensive encounter when you're armed with a contact weapon, reach helps keep the attacker farther away.

A point forward hold also allows you to slash better than the reverse hold. Slashing with a small blade may not be a great technique for actually disabling or killing your attacker, but it can make you a very undesirable victim as the stories posted on this thread demonstrate.
The punch was as quick as any I've ever seen thrown and was quite precise. Knife guy fell like a sack of potatoes.

Someone doesn't have to wrestle or grapple with you to get your knife.
The sad story of arm's length encounters. If your opponent is really fast, really big, really strong, really experienced, or really determined etc. it's going to be hard for you to prevail. You can't win them all.
 
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A knife is an inherently difficult weapon to take away because you cannot simply grab it. The blade itself is a deterrent, and the shorter and thinner the blade, the harder it is to deflect or gain hold of in a non-harmful manner. In close combat, a pistol held in a typical one-handed grip is nowhere near as hard to disarm by comparison. Deflect, grab the barrel, elbow strike to face, strike the wrist, and in the vast majority of cases you WILL have it. A trained pistol wielder will never allow you to get in that position, though, and will instead protect their gun by bringing it closer to their body and possibly using one arm to force you to keep a distance, or ideally never letting you get that close in the first place. In all cases, it's important that you know how to use your weapon properly.
 
I saw a guy at Daytona bike week in, maybe 91 or 92' (can't remember. sorry.) knock a guy out who had pulled a knife on him.

First let me say that I do beleive your post ---- BUT -- there is a giant difference between when someone pulls/displays a edged weapon and when there is a ATTACK with the same.

In FMA , we trained with all types of impact and edged weapons ---- from what I saw , the smaller {4" or less } knives were MUCH harder to work against. We would do full contact sparring and 99% of the time -- things would end up on the ground or grappleing. With even the smallest amount of training --- our "white belts" would score some hits/cuts even against much higher trained students.

I am very lucky as to have some training time under Master Dan Inosanto , who taught our Datu Glenn Dahmes --- as they are some of the best instructors in FMA , these two people were the ONLY ones who ever disarmed me without getting "marked up " . I must have sparred hundreds of times with 100+ other trained people ----- EVERYONE else got cut way more then once while sparring.

A quick/long story on the only time someone tried to get a knife away from me ------- when in my early 20s , a bunch of people were together drinking and things went downhill from there. Me { 5' 9" and 150 lbs } and Indian John { 6' 4" and 230lbs , NO FAT } started the " hit me and I'll hit you harder " game . All punches were to the body , no face shots allowed. For a smaller guy , I have a GOOD punch ---- so after a few minutes , Indian John tackles me , wraps his legs around my waist and gets me in a killer headlock. We end up on the floor and in less then two minutes , I can barely breath and I hear/feel bones popping in my ribs , jawbone , and checkbone.

I know I'm starting to black out and thats when I panic. Under a table near us , in reach of me , I see a big Buck fixed blade knife { think it was called a General ?? } , so I grab the knife and not really wanting to hurt John , I lightly stab him twice in the thigh. He has on white "painters pants " he yells , looks down to see two 25 cent size blood stains and now gets REALLY MAD !!!

I only stuck him about 1/8" - 1/4" deep and when he yelled/seen it , he relaxed his arms/legs on me and I was able to get some much needed air. I remember saying " I give up Man , your hurting me , you win so just let me up " etc. ---- John laughs and says " hurt ya ?? I'm gonna kill ya " ---- he starts squeezeing my chest with his legs again and still has me in a chin/headlock --- he lets go with one arm and uses that hand to grab me under my chin and tries to pull my neck back over my own shoulder !!!

I did what came natural --- with my knifehand , I followed his arm up to his bicep and gave him three shallow cuts to it. Well , it got him to let lose of my jaw/chin but it made him even MADDER !!! Now , I feel him trying to find/gouge my eyes with his one hand , so I cut his bicep another 4 or 5 times and he lets me go.

I twist around and am still in his locked legs but now faceing him. I am laying on one of his arms and his other hand has grabbed my wrist that has the knife . Again , I try to reason/plead with him to just let me up etc. ---- NO GOOD --- he bucks under me and gets his other arm out and GRAPS THE KNIFE BLADE WITH BOTH HANDS and starts to tell me what he is going to do as soon as he gets the knife away from me !!!!

Now , I'm REALLY freaking out ----- last thing I want is a big drunk Indian John getting this knife away from me --- so , I use my other hand to grab my hand thats holding the knife and I start to twist it left and right. As you might guess , there is a LOT of blood from his bicep and from his hands just pouring all over us.

At this point , 6 or 7 other guys pile on us and it takes 2 guys prying on Johns fingers to get him to let go of the blade !!!! And that was the end of that party !!! A few people take John down to the local ER and he gets almost 20 stitches in his bicep and over 50 stitches to his hands !!! They just put two little Band-Aids on his leg.

Belive it or not , me and John were good friends for many years after that and both of us would laugh like crazy everytime we'd tell the story !!!!

The point I hope to make telling this story is ----- if you are in fear of your life , you will hold on to a knife better then you may think.
 
I guess I have been on the bandwagon of people who don't think much of the knife as a weapon. Not that I think it is a bad weapon so much as I just get sick of all the hyperbole that surrounds knives as self defense tools.

I also maintain that I will probably never spend any time specifically learning how to knife fight past the little tiny bit I learned in the USMC. I personally do not feel it is particularly worth the time, and I think I have hack and slash down already. THIS IS JUST MY OPINION ABOUT ME! If you hold knife-fighting near and dear to your heart, god bless you in your endeavors.

I will say that despite my new found love of Case Trappers, if I am going to carry a knife for self defense, it will not be a Case Trapper. Nor will it be a "traditional" knife, period. Obviously, they can work. Carl just used an Opinel to dissuade an assailant. I just really, totally, and firmly believe that this is a case where new far outstrips old. I carry it regularly anyway, but my Spyderco Endura is what I consider my self-defense knife. I can open it with one hand, either instantly by flicking my wrist, less rapidly by using my thumb, and slowly and stealthily by using my thumb. The blade is sharp, sans serrations, and big enough to do harm. I also really believe in the company and the product they put out in terms of quality. This is my choice, there are many other great choices out there, for all budgets and tastes. Your options only expand if you want to carry a fixed blade.

Like I say, I am not a knife as a self-defense tool hater, but I am not an advocate either. It's one option, not the only option.
 
I carry a one-handed opening LOCK blade knife that is as large as the State(s) I will be in will allow. I also keep it just as sharp as I possibly can. I pray that I never have to use it for cuting anything other than packing tape...
 
Will they really take it away? If they really want to ... yes, but they will pay dearly for it. May cost them more than their looks, but if someone is truly determined to get a knife away from you and is willing to sacrifice all to do it, they will succeed.
 
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