ARperson
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I don't post in this forum much (at all), but peruse sometimes. And after a conversation with my husband and reading all these "what would you do" threads, I got to thinking about mental preparedness.
How many of you actually visualize shooting in self defense? Or at least drawing and pointing to belay the attack.
I find myself constantly playing through situations in my head. When we're at a restaurant. When we're at the local home improvement store. When we're driving.
I've only been in three situation where things even got remotely close to needing the firearm. The first was when my husband and I were showing a unit to a potential renter. The person hadn't showed up yet and 3 big dudes came walking up the street and and turned up the walk to the house with the excuse that they wanted to see the unit. My husband met them at the front door and told them they would have to schedule an appointment. They kept coming and it wasn't until his hand moved to his hip that they backed off. Meanwhile, I'm drawing my firearm and moving to a safe position to both avoid any fire they aim in our direction and get out of hubby's way.
Second time, I didn't even really confront the bad guys since the perps were more concerned with getting away after we caught them trying to steal our temporary license plate. But in that neighborhood, we didn't know what to expect.
The third time, hubby answered the door to a guy asking for someone who didn't live in our house. Knowing that so many home invasions start like this, my heart was pounding. Thankfully, it appeared the guy really was lost, but.....
And there are always the strange noises in the house (especially with 4 cats who refuse to stay off the kitchen counters and refrigerator) that get your blood flowing.
I think my reactions to the above situations were helped because I do think about what actions I would take under different situations. Specifics. Details. While I've never actually visualized shooting anybody, I have considered the steps I would take to get to that point.
Hopefully, though, I will never have to act out my mental pictures.
How many of you actually visualize shooting in self defense? Or at least drawing and pointing to belay the attack.
I find myself constantly playing through situations in my head. When we're at a restaurant. When we're at the local home improvement store. When we're driving.
I've only been in three situation where things even got remotely close to needing the firearm. The first was when my husband and I were showing a unit to a potential renter. The person hadn't showed up yet and 3 big dudes came walking up the street and and turned up the walk to the house with the excuse that they wanted to see the unit. My husband met them at the front door and told them they would have to schedule an appointment. They kept coming and it wasn't until his hand moved to his hip that they backed off. Meanwhile, I'm drawing my firearm and moving to a safe position to both avoid any fire they aim in our direction and get out of hubby's way.
Second time, I didn't even really confront the bad guys since the perps were more concerned with getting away after we caught them trying to steal our temporary license plate. But in that neighborhood, we didn't know what to expect.
The third time, hubby answered the door to a guy asking for someone who didn't live in our house. Knowing that so many home invasions start like this, my heart was pounding. Thankfully, it appeared the guy really was lost, but.....
And there are always the strange noises in the house (especially with 4 cats who refuse to stay off the kitchen counters and refrigerator) that get your blood flowing.
I think my reactions to the above situations were helped because I do think about what actions I would take under different situations. Specifics. Details. While I've never actually visualized shooting anybody, I have considered the steps I would take to get to that point.
Hopefully, though, I will never have to act out my mental pictures.