Offwhite said: 2.I don’t kiss strippers in the mouth
Our platoon had pictures from a weekend of liberty in Pusan of our drunk Corpsman tongue kissing a "working girl" in one of the . . . ahem . . . "houses". This had to have been about 8 hours after he distributed condoms to us all, and we HAD to have them, to go on liberty.
Being both a guy who hadn't gone thru school under Clinton's Health Secretary's term, and a virgin, I didn't even know how to use it. And I was pretty adamant that, when I was going to loose my virginity, it wasn't going to be in some dark, sleazy cathouse to someone I paid $40.
Still . . . we made fun of him for months.
Liars . . . lie. To everyone. Including being dishonest with themselves. I don't even engage them in conversation. I just say . . . "You're right, you are a real bad-ass" . . . and move on.
Anyone I've known that actually killed a man, or was engaged in mortal combat with another human being, and is a well-adjusted person, simply doesn't like to talk about it. And when they do discuss it, its not a non-chalant, look how bad-ass I am, conversation. Its usually discussed among those that have been similarly scarred.
Taking the life of another, and seeing the lives of close buddies being snuffed out, scars the soul. Its like flippantly taking about a miscarriage or an abortion. Well adjusted people just don't like to dwell on it.