Embrace the maddness!
You bought a heavy, big, 357. What 2.5 pounds, 43 oz loaded?
It's built like a tank.
158 grain bullets at 1475 fps recoil at a measly
Recoil Energy of 11 foot pounds, and Recoil Velocity of 17 fps.
That same buffalobore Plus P bullet at 1040 fps recoils at
Recoil Energy of 6 foot pounds, and Recoil Velocity of 12 fps.
That gives you a good range of recoil to decide what you shoot most accurate.
The .357 recoils more, at combat ranges also has the same effects as a flashbang grenade: huge flash, blinds the guy, huge boom deafens the attacker, and the combination stuns him. What's NOT to like about that?
I think a lot of the M&S stats are because LEO used .357 mag at close range, and, the bad guys are stunned, not due to the effectiveness of the bullet. Keep in mind that the .357 is given the same rating, 97% as a .308 rifle, and I'm REALLY not buying that one.
I have a friend that was SWAT, and, if they shoot you with a .308, it's going to be a head shot, and we know how those turn out with a .308 rifle. They don't miss, either.
My point being, the .357 is an excellent handgun round, but, due to close range, and the flashbang effect, it's given mythical properties that don't exist
as far as effectiveness as a stopping round.
That said, I picked the fastest .357 round I can shoot with any kind of accuracy at combat ranges out of my lil 357, and the heaviest. The best combination for my gun turned out to be Fioochi's 147 grain HP, at 1131 fps
out of my snub.
You made an excellent choice, in that your 4" barrel will actually get the REAL velocity that the .357 should be working at, not what I get out of a 2"
snub.