You understand that what you are asking for is a phone book of 'pet loads.'
The XTP has always delivered excellent accuracy... in any cartridge/caliber I've tried them in; if you aren't getting the accuracy you expect, I would try a different powder... keeping the bullet the same. The list is long... so just pick one that you can find data for. I would not expect accuracy on par with the Berry's vs the XTP's, just saying.
One other thing to consider... is your pistol capable of a higher level of accuracy? My Kahrs are good pistols, but they are SD pistols, not target pistols... if you see what I mean, and I don't expect a supreme level of accuracy out of them.
For the record, I like Unique for 9mm, although I've got a can of TiteGroup that seems to work well enough with plated and jacketed bullets in 9mm.