I have an impact type puller, comes with a small and large shell holder, I put a foam earplug in the bottom so when the bullet comes loose it does not damage it. hammer onto a piece of wood, not cement to save the hammer. pour out the powder into a little dish so you can reuse it if you feel the need or you want to weigh it (I dont reuse if I don't know what powder it is).
As for loading, I don't shoot others reloads, I one time bought some reloads at a gun show, 50 rounds of 45 colt, and found several cracked cases, and very inconsistent shooting some felt heavy, some felt light, that was before I started reloading - never again I only shoot factory or my own reloads now.
I drop 10 or 20 charges and weigh each one until they are consistent = or - .1 for hand guns (I don't typically load at the top of the range for pistol); I pour each charge back in the powder flask for that first 10 or 20, then when I am consistent (= or - .1) and ready to load, I drop a charge in my pan, weigh the charge as a second check (zero the scale for an empty pan so you get powder weight), pour the charge in the case (funnel on a powder through die), look in the case to verify the charge went in the case, put a bullet on it, seat it, crimp it, one round done.
And yes, that is equal to or -.1 if I am for some reason heavy, I pour it back in and drop another charge.
I do this on a turret press one cartridge at a time. with practice you can get fairly quick this way, and you never find yourself in a position where you don't remember did I size, did I put powder in, etc, if I ever find myself in doubt of where I am I stop, and take bullets apart.
Slower than a progressive, but, knock on wood, I have not had any issues to date - I like my fingers and hands and eyes.
Dave