I currently shoot a .500 S&W with the Magtech Lightloading 325 gr SJHP and its not bad at all.The .460 seemed to be a bit like shooting my .475 Linebaugh which is fairly easy to handle..Try using lightloads (lighter bullet weights help) I have shot big bore cals for many years so I am pretty use to them..I am at odds with smaller calibers..Also grips play an important part..But I am sure you know all this..