offthepaper
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If he knows that this is against federal law, and he's okay with asking you to do this... it is time to act like a jerk
agreed.
If he knows that this is against federal law, and he's okay with asking you to do this... it is time to act like a jerk
The real reason I wouldn't do it is because he sounds like the grasshopper at the door of the ant.
I'm with you. See, my wife is the opposite. She won't turn down anything no matter how much it puts her out, and at times I've had to step in and say, "No, you're not going to do this, because I know you don't want to and your generosity is being taken advantage of." She's concerned that people think she's "nice", whatever that means to her.Noxx said:What I don't understand, and it's possible.... okay *probable* that I am just a jerk, is the need people have to provide a reason for saying no to uncomfortable requests like this.
It's my s***, it's my time, it's my decision, the answer is no and I don't need to explain myself.
Then again, perhaps I am just bitter after a lot of years of silly requests, but that's how I see it.