Nightwing
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We were talking about the shootings, and the issue of gun free zones.
She starts saying that people don't need guns! Instead we need to encourage parents to spend more time teaching their kids to be better people, and we wouldn't have this issue in the first place.
I then say.... but even if that was realistic and we solved all of the mental problems and all of these messed up gun men from existing, then what would the harm of having guns be in that situation?
She says "guns aren't the answer!"
Ok so then we get talking about people breaking into our house again.
Me: Honey... if someone broke into the house and had a gun to my head, and I didn't have any way to defend myself before it got to that point, then what would you say?
Her: I'd say that's why we shouldn't have guns!
Me: But we do have guns! And this guy is in our house with the intent of raping and killing. Maybe hurting our kid! If there was a ban on firearms, I would have no way to even attempt to defend us, and this guy has all the means to hurt us!
Her: But if there was a gun ban, why would he have a gun?
Me: !!!!!!! BECAUSE LAWS DON'T APPLY TO HIM! HE'S A CRIMINAL.
Her: Well... then that's his problem. We're not above the law, and we would NOT have a gun.
OH GOD...... I'm being so calm and reasoning with her about it, but she won't hear a word of it.
Then she talks about "Remember in school how the teachers would say "Since *Johnny* screwed up in this area, the whole classroom has lost this privilege"(Like..johnny takes too many bathroom breaks and screws around in the halls, so now the whole class will have it's hall pass privileges removed)
I say "sure"
She says "That's what we need more of! If nobody has the right, then people will put pressure on the one that screwed it up for everyone!:
"But honey.... the majority of these guys can't "feel the pressure" of society, because they will be killed by police or kill themselves, after murdering innocent people!"
"Well then there's ntohing we can do about that."
Me: "But honey....if johnny screws up with his hall pass privileges, why not just punish johnny?"
HEr: "Because you can't single people out! It's belittling to that person and makes them feel like an inferior in the group"
Me: "Isn't that the point of punishment for an individual? To make them recognize that the others were able to follow the rules, but they weren't! That's why their privelage has been removed".
Her: That's just not fair.
Oh man....can't even finish a conversation becasue it jumps all over the place and nothing ever really has a solution!
It always ends in "I don't know what the solution is, but GUNS AREN'T IT!!!!"
guys.... I'm losing my desire to continue this effort! haha
She starts saying that people don't need guns! Instead we need to encourage parents to spend more time teaching their kids to be better people, and we wouldn't have this issue in the first place.
I then say.... but even if that was realistic and we solved all of the mental problems and all of these messed up gun men from existing, then what would the harm of having guns be in that situation?
She says "guns aren't the answer!"
Ok so then we get talking about people breaking into our house again.
Me: Honey... if someone broke into the house and had a gun to my head, and I didn't have any way to defend myself before it got to that point, then what would you say?
Her: I'd say that's why we shouldn't have guns!
Me: But we do have guns! And this guy is in our house with the intent of raping and killing. Maybe hurting our kid! If there was a ban on firearms, I would have no way to even attempt to defend us, and this guy has all the means to hurt us!
Her: But if there was a gun ban, why would he have a gun?
Me: !!!!!!! BECAUSE LAWS DON'T APPLY TO HIM! HE'S A CRIMINAL.
Her: Well... then that's his problem. We're not above the law, and we would NOT have a gun.
OH GOD...... I'm being so calm and reasoning with her about it, but she won't hear a word of it.
Then she talks about "Remember in school how the teachers would say "Since *Johnny* screwed up in this area, the whole classroom has lost this privilege"(Like..johnny takes too many bathroom breaks and screws around in the halls, so now the whole class will have it's hall pass privileges removed)
I say "sure"
She says "That's what we need more of! If nobody has the right, then people will put pressure on the one that screwed it up for everyone!:
"But honey.... the majority of these guys can't "feel the pressure" of society, because they will be killed by police or kill themselves, after murdering innocent people!"
"Well then there's ntohing we can do about that."
Me: "But honey....if johnny screws up with his hall pass privileges, why not just punish johnny?"
HEr: "Because you can't single people out! It's belittling to that person and makes them feel like an inferior in the group"
Me: "Isn't that the point of punishment for an individual? To make them recognize that the others were able to follow the rules, but they weren't! That's why their privelage has been removed".
Her: That's just not fair.
Oh man....can't even finish a conversation becasue it jumps all over the place and nothing ever really has a solution!
It always ends in "I don't know what the solution is, but GUNS AREN'T IT!!!!"
guys.... I'm losing my desire to continue this effort! haha