TonkinTwentyMil
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Waitone said:A characteristic of the female of the species it an assumption on their part that they can fix the male of the species. Men go into a relationship not wanting the female to change. Women go into a relationship assuming she can change the male. In view of her past experiences with guns and boyfriends, I'd be on the lookout for repair work on you once the relationship is fixed (however she defines the term is what is important). She may be simply waiting before she begins repairs on you.
Waitone speaks the real truth here. After several divorces and/or break-ups where this was a big issue, I've "been there and seen the movie."
It gets old.
Look, this subject pops up every other month here, so it's not an unique deal. While there's some good advice posted, instead of re-inventing the wheel just do a search on it. Same old/same old.
Bottom line: sharp differences over the gun issue are usually indicative of MAJOR political and cultural incompatibilities. While it's possible for time and maturation to close this gap, you'll be required to "compromise" and bear much anguish along the way.
It won't be worth it.
And do HER a favor: drop-kick her to some, uhh, caring/progressive/sensitive Alan Alda gun-hating lefty/feminized/politically correct/metrosexual male who'll hold her hand and agree with her... even while she's being raped or mugged by some socially-disadvantaged/psychologically-challenged inner-city devotees of chemical recreation.
Cut your losses NOW.