approached in a parking lot...

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You have a daughter. You are a father. You have nothing to feel bad about. The scumbag sewer-sucker who tried to fark with you is the one who should feel bad. You did the right thing, and thwarted a potential attack, without having to fire a shot. I call that a "good day". You are a good man. Don't let any jelly-stomached son of a birch tell you otherwise.
 
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My uncle had a similar situation happen. Broad daylight and he was at a gas station getting gas when a guy approached him asking for a smoke.
Luckily my uncle had a uneasy feeling about the guy when he pulled up to get gas and grabbed the lighter off his dashboard.

After my uncle told him that he didnt smoke, the bg produced a knife and asked for his money. My Uncle quickly took the nozzle out of the tank and sprayed the bg with gas and showed him the lighter. Of course the guy took off.

What gets me is like so many of these stories the attendant came out after the incident and asked if my uncle was ok. The attendant also made the comment about the guy hanging out around there for the last hour and that he knew he was up to no good. As many no loitering signs as i see outside gas stations, i would think that the attendant would call the police on someone that they feel isnt up to any good. True the police might not respond in a timely mannr or at all for a loitering complaint but at least the attendant would have taken a step to prevent this type of thing.
 
Never bring a knife to a gasoline fight.

(Yay, I'm first!)
 
dang you know I always get in my convertible with the top down and windows open and if people approach me and talk to me in the grocery store parking lot it's usually just regular friendly people saying "cool car" or "great day for driving with the top down" and I just smile and say something nice in response.

however if someone that looked out of place came up asking for a cigarette, given that my car offers me no defense, I think I would not hesitate to get back out of the car, sternly and aggressively invite them to leave, and if they didn't turn right around and book it without delay, they'd get a look at my CCW. Of course I guess the fact that I'm a 6' tall, 190lb 35 year old male gives me the advantage of at least not looking like a weak target.
 
he took his hand from his pocket, holding a set of keys.

He was getting HIS keys out of his pocket while approaching YOUR car? Why would he need his keys? He was either going to use them as a weapon or had another weapon in the same pocket.
 
My wife and I shop at wally world a couple of time per week, and it is not in the best part of town. I try to be prepared for this same scenario. If I put myself in the OPs shoes, I would have done exactly the same thing. A BG can cover 20 feet in seconds, and nothing says "deterrent" like conveying to the BG that you are armed. Good job. My loved one's life is too important to gamble with.

KK
 
When I found myself in similar situations, I drew my weapon and kept it out of sight. I was in a position to defend myself, but I did not show my hand, so to speak.
 
kentucky bucky observed:

NOBODY asks a stranger for a smoke late at night in a parking lot unless he's up to no good.

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My routine in parking lots.

Walk briskly to the car, have the key out and ready when I get to the car.

Unlock the car, get in, close the door, hit the power locks, put in the key, start the car and drive off. (This step takes about 5 seconds unless I'm in a hurry).

From the time you step out the door, anyone in the lot knows that you're going to get into a car, and they can make a good guess where your car is by the direction you take. People who fiddle around in the car before they pull out are making themselves available as car-jacking victims.

It's worse when you leave with a shopping cart full of stuff you'll have to load in the car. You have to really pay attention to what's going on around you.

By the way, when someone accosts you say only "No" and don't add a reason/excuse. Excuses are a sign of weakness, a form of apology, an indication that you may relent if pressed, a hint that you're going to allow the "interview" to continue. If they ask again say only "No!" again, say it louder and look them in the eye.
 
By the way, when someone accosts you say only "No" and don't add a reason/excuse. Excuses are a sign of weakness, a form of apology, an indication that you may relent if pressed, a hint that you're going to allow the "interview" to continue. If they ask again say only "No!" again, say it louder and look them in the eye.

Amen. That is exactly right. There is no need to offer any excuse.
 
Interesting story from Utah where something similar happened (person simulated going for a weapon) and the CCW holder didn't wait to see if he really had one or not...

http://www.ksl.com/?nid=148&sid=3732486

Michael Mays was shot and killed yesterday outside a Salt Lake City restaurant.

Witnesses say Mays was aggressive and violent, yelling at a group of men sitting outside Mama's Southern Plantation Restaurant yesterday. When he acted like he was going for a weapon, one of the men, a part-time security guard, George Harrison, pulled out his concealed weapon and fired.

This story is generating discussion on our KSL.com comment boards about the effectiveness of Utah gun laws.

While authorities investigate whether the shooter was justified, people on both sides of the debate have opinions of their own.

In the state of Utah, we have the right to protect ourselves with a firearm. Some say the laws clearly state how that firearm can be used, but others argue, in this case and others like it, no one had to die.

Our Second Amendment right to "keep and bear arms" has for a long time stirred heavy debate across the country and here in Utah.

Clark Aposhian, a firearms instructor and advocate, says, "The only reason to carry a concealed firearm is if you're committed to defending yourself and your family."

Steven Gunn, with Gun Violence Prevention Center of Utah, says, "I think the first rule ought to be run away or walk away if you can."

The conversation is active once again after George Harrison shot and killed Mike Mays in front of a Salt Lake City restaurant yesterday.

Mays was belligerent but unarmed. Harrison is claiming self defense. Detective Jeff Bedard, spokesman for the Salt Lake City Police Department, says, "It's something where you have to act in a split second, and there's a lot of time after the fact to sit back to analyze it."

Utah law states: "A person is justified in using force intended or likely to cause death or serious bodily injury only if he or she reasonable believes that force is necessary to prevent death or serious bodily injury."

Firearms instructor and advocate Clark Aposhian says, "If you believe that an attack is imminent, and if you believe that a person is reaching into their bag to get a firearm, you don't have to wait until the person is actually pointing a firearm at you to engage with them."

But Gunn says regardless of how the law may protect the shooter, this is just another example of how dangerous firearms can be in the hands of the public. "[There's sadness, for both the victim and the shooter, because the shooter is going to have to bear that burden for the rest of his life."

Aposhian says Utahns don't have the right to kill, but a right to protect themselves and their family.
 
"An armed society is a POLITE society.", and now just look how polite he was to suddenly leave you to yourself. No harm, no foul, both people left that scene unharmed. Who says guns kill people?! A gun quite possibly saved two lives here.
 
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