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33 Surgeries Later

I was rearended in 1995. Now, 33 surgeries later, "running away" just is not an option. My doctors credit my recovery to my life-long martial arts training. At the time of the accident, I was very actively preparing to test for 3rd degree Black Belt. The emergency room doctor was shocked that I lived, let alone that walked into the emergency room under my own power.

The accident actually altered my personal view of firearms (pistol V. rifle/shotgun). Prior to the accident, I personally had owned only 2 handguns, both were little .22LRs. Now, I prefer handgun over rifle, but keep a few around. No more .300 Wea. Mags. for me though.

I ultimately had to completely leave shooting and hunting which was horrid for me. Prior to the accident, I used to target practice at least 3 or 4 days per week. We lived 1/4 mile from a 1/2 mile wide gravel pit. That was sweet! Continuing, I could no longer bend my neck after blowing out 5 cervical disks, and the surgeon fusing C-4, C-5 and C-6. After 2 years, of PT, I had worked back up to being able to fire a Marlin .22LR. One Sunday, while at the range I met an elderly gentleman shooting a T/C Contender in 7-30 Waters. When I asked what it was, he had me try shooting it, and said, "This can get you back into hunting!" I tried it; I was hooked!!! I immediately left the range, went to the gunstore and bought my first Contender, and the next week, I bought my first Encore.

I practied from summer to Winter, then following my first successful hunt with the Encore, I wrote a letter to the President of T/C. He was so moved by my experience and by my sticking to my treatment, to the point of getting back into hunting, that he gave me as a gift, any T/C barrel of my chosing for free! Wow! I chose an Encore 15" blued steel, chambered in the earth-moving .45-70 Gov't. That barrel has been so accurate! So, that was my introduction into seriously-powerful pistols.

To close on this topic, following 33 sergeries, and getting a neurostimulator implanted into my spine, I ultimately determined that I had to get a MCPL (CCW) to be able to fully protect my family and me of course. I can technically still do TKD, but if I were ever struck in the implant, it could kill me. So, better to keep the BG at distance and shoot.

This is a very good thread. Thanks to all who have shared. For what it's worth, this is referred to as "Self-disclossure Theory". People only self-disclose personal information to the degree that they trust others not to use the information agasint them. The degree of self-disclossure that I have read here impresses me. There is a lot of trust among our fellow High Road members.

Doc2005
 
I'm not dis-abled but wanted to check in to tell you all that I feel bad for you all. Life is tough enough without having to put up with the aches and pains you folks are suffering. Count your blessings that you do not live here in NJ 'cause the state legislators and judges would rather see you dead than to be able to defend yourself. The only state in the nation where the bad guys always win. Take care all.
 
Wow, The list is growing. A couple hundred more of us and we might have a football team ! LOL

I do a pretty good impression of Tim Conway doing an impression of an old geezer. Trouble is my impression is perminant in nature also. ( I won't run through the list but some simularity exist with others & I use a cane assist)

Like some others, not only can I not flee, I would risk even more disabling conditions from a blow .

Yes, when my pants are on , I am carrying.
 
BYRON QUICK said:
I've an open laminectomy from C5 to T4 secondary to the removal of two spinal cord tumors. I will not risk absorbing a blow to my head or neck. Dislocated vertebrae and paralysis ranks as grave bodily injury to me.

My mother also has had open laminectomy, though lower than yours, during surgery for treatment of syringomyelia (link:http://www.syringo.org/)...one of the main reasons I armed myself was because I live with her and she is practically unable to defend herself and we live in the woods. I'm hoping I can convince her to try firing a .22 revolver but as it stands now she can't even hold most pistols at arms length without causing excruciating pain to her back. That said, she's willing to hurt to save herself from grevious harm so she isnt totally defenseless, but a better solution must be possible. She's not wheelchair bound but has trouble walking quickly, no chance of running. Any input you have would be much appreciated
 
"This is a very good thread. Thanks to all who have shared. For what it's worth, this is referred to as "Self-disclossure Theory". People only self-disclose personal information to the degree that they trust others not to use the information agasint them. The degree of self-disclossure that I have read here impresses me. There is a lot of trust among our fellow High Road members"

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Heck, the only thing we're disclosing is that since we can't run or fight, our first option is to shoot. Don't think many people would take us up on that offer!

Just kidding, I know what you mean.
 
I can still walk with out assistance but running is out.
I ripped the cartalage out of my knee and had two operations on it and
injured my back and now have degenerated disc's also and now my back
pops and crunches as bad as my knee.
But thank God I'am still here alive and kinda kicken.


Dennis
 
I'm not dis-abled but wanted to check in to tell you all that I feel bad for you all. Life is tough enough without having to put up with the aches and pains you folks are suffering.
No kidding. I feel bad for me, too. :p An old leg injury puts me into "gimp" status, though without cane, crutches or wheelchair for now. Am still able to do the gym (albeit gingerly) ... and a few other things, but certainly running any distance is a thing of the past. No muscle in a crucial area of the leg, plus nerve damage. Could be speedier with crutches, but I live where it rains. Ever had the leg of a pair of crutches slip in the rain, when "pushing it"? Whaaap! BTDT. Not recommended.

So. Armed, aware and vigilant, with a short list of options for self defense. Glad to see I'm not alone.
 
It just means (to me, anyway) that we live(d) lives far beyond the monitored, pastel, padded, aerosol-anesthetized designer McMansions popular to our contemporaries more often than not. Or, that we rolled the dice and got snake eyes five times in a row - and when we switched to poker, we pulled three straight hands of aces & eights.

After a while, it's normal, and I find I can get tripped up encountering people whose lives may have only seen a sporadic paper cut by comparison.

Unlucky, unwise to live such that things happen? Some were volitional risks, some were courtesy of Oscar's analogy of The Practical Joke Department (Glory Road). I think I'd rather understand how to cope with pain, with hardship as such have come into my life than to live in ignorance. Sure, I'd welcome a lighter load, truth be told, especially for Kathryn, but life seems to taste better when it's not soft-serve vanillia.

To quote a delightful character; "Life is pain! You get used to it!"

:neener:

It's true here, that such as does not kill has made us stronger, but it does seem to have shortened the skein. . .
 
I'm not dis-abled but wanted to check in to tell you all that I feel bad for you all. Life is tough enough without having to put up with the aches and pains you folks are suffering.

You don't need to feel bad for us. I'm sure we have all had enough self pity to fulfill that quota. I can't speak for everyone here but most of the people I know with long term disabilities are fairly well adjusted. We have had time to come to grips with our station in life. We no longer lament what we have lost. Rather we rejoice in what we still have. Loosing something so dear only makes you more appreciative of what you still have. You never really know how truly strong you are until you face your weaknesses.
 
CCW for visually impaired people

The original thread on this was over on The Crimson Trace Board, but the Board crashed and their backup copy was corrunpted, so it may not be there any more.

At any rate, there is a CCW instrictor in Minneapolis named Mark Koscelski who does train visually impaired people for CCW. There was a lot of discussion and some flaming because the original post was entitled "CCW for the blind", but as it turns out there are no less than five levels of impairment within the official definition of being legally blind, so we are talking about CCW for people with at least SOME visual perception left. Needless to say, Crimson Trace lasergrips help a lot when you can't see the sights on a gun (and I couldn't before my cataract surgery two years ago), and your average street scum DO generally prey on the most weak and defenseless victims they can find, which would include visually impaired people.

At any rate, there ARE now people in Minnesota who have both white canes AND guns, and since this has been covered by the local media at least a little, I think the effects are beneficial because some of the scumbags are now aware that some visually impaired people in this state are armed.

One other CCW thing that can apply to both elderly and disabled people is the ability to be able to carry a gun in a fanny pack or wheelchair sidebag without being noticed or "made" like a healthy man in his 40's would for wearing a fanny pack. There was an old guy out at my range (God, he must have been 62, while I'M only 57...:rolleyes: ) who carried a Smith Scandium 357 in something like a fanny pack but smaller, and when people asked him what it was, he told them it was the medications he was on that he had to keep with him. I don't think it would take much to stuff a Smith airweight in a bag with an oxygen bottle, or a humidifier, or in a bag on a walker or a wheelchair, and you would really NEVER suspect that it's in there.

In conclusion, CCW for disabled people may also be good medicine, because at least you're affirming that your life IS worth protecting, and that you're healthy enough to do that, even if some of your other functions are compromised.
 
Preacherman is another that has not only trained Physcially Limited Folks, later he himself became Physically Limited.


I have a LOT of respect for those Physically Limited, makes no matter if young or how seasoned one is.

Physcially Limited folks have a LOT to share, and a LOT can be learned by those that are not physically limited.

Great assistance for those going thru a temporary time of being limited, such as recovering from surgeries.

I would be appreciative and humbled to if some of you members, Physically Limited, would write some postings and share with us all on THR.

-Holster selections for one is often a concern for wheelchair persons, temporary or long term.

-How to carry for a particular Limitation

-Security measures taken to not be where trouble is, maybe you have a Inexpensive camera set up to see who is at front door using a monitor instead of having to get up and check a peephole.

etc.

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Ladies, Physically Limited, please go here, and read and if you have any ideas to share, I am sure they would be appreciated by the author:

http://www.corneredcat.com/

Guys, don't be bashful, if you have ideas that the author could use to assist ladies, send them.

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Physically Limited folks are - remarkable! They have a great sense of humor, and can be downright tacky and funny.

Walkers. Many folks put a tennis ball on these. Making fun of the 9mm vs 45 caliber debates...oh yeah these folks had the:

Wilson vs Spaulding Tennis Ball for Walker. debate.

I had no idea they made "that" Neon of a Pink Tennis Ball, but one Lady set these folks straight.

"If it ain't Pink - your walker stinks". :D

Me argue? You nuts! She was "Dead eye Debra" with that revolver of hers.

Seems there is a "certain way" to puncture a tennis ball for that too. Which led to me to cracking up at this bunch, and the way they carried on.

'You know, you might shoot better if were not too busy laughing over there Steve"

I get a NAA Mini , 1 1/8" bbl in .22 lr to shoot at targets at 10 yds , worst target shot, shooter had to go pick up lunch. I got to pick up lunch. Always messin' with me they were...and I learned a lot from these folks. ;)



Do share with us Please!

Steve
 
I'm just another ex military damaged person. I joke about my left elbow being the only joint that didn't get injuried while I was in the Army. I use a cane and have the big A really bad in my gun hand.
 
CABG

Have had quad coronary artery bypass graft surgery, and although well enough, I would use lethal force before I would receive a potentially fatal boot to my chest.
 
I'm fortunate enough not to be disabled, but I noticed that the new shooting shelter built at the local public outdoor range I go to has a wheelchair ramp. Nice touch!
Marty
 
I suspect laser sights built into the gun or on the rails would be very useful to the disbled. Let's you shoot from the hip or any which way you hold it and easier to aim.
 
You don't need to feel bad for us. I'm sure we have all had enough self pity to fulfill that quota. I can't speak for everyone here but most of the people I know with long term disabilities are fairly well adjusted. We have had time to come to grips with our station in life. We no longer lament what we have lost. Rather we rejoice in what we still have. Loosing something so dear only makes you more appreciative of what you still have. You never really know how truly strong you are until you face your weaknesses.
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Amen

Go into a VA and see all the vets with with missing limbs and other pieces.You stop feeling sorry for yourself fast. There always seems to be some one worse off then you are.
I can still walk with a cane plus have a bad ticker but I am still alive.
I carry 100% of the time.
Bob
 
For a while I was on crutches due to a galloping foot infection. I always carried then. Predators go for the weak, the old and the infirm.
 
After some informal plinking at the Ashcraft's yesterday, those present saw for themselves that fine muscle control is a challenge for me, but one I overcome adequately. I have no idea if anyone understood. . .

There were triumphs, personal ones to be sure, but both Kathryn and I have smiles today.

And today's another day.
 
Trisha,

Rest assured I understand, and many others do as well.

I have learned a lot from folks with limits , and am appreciative in having been around them and to learn from them. I will continue to do so.

In the blink of an eye, anyone of us could find ourselves limited and needing to relearn not only how to do simple ADLs (Activities of Daily Living) such as walking, or cutting up food, how to talk - also how to stay safe.

Attitude of Gratitude.


Steve
 
TABS

It must be going on 30 years now since I first heard a person with a disability refer to a non-disabled person as a TAB.

:confused:

TAB = temporarily able bodied
 
I somehow missed this thread the first time around. I carry.

Bouncing Bettys do bad things to a person's body. I have to admit it didn't do as badly to me as to my point man, though.

Broken L1, L2, L3 and L4 does bad things to a person's body.

Constant pain for the past 46 years does bad thing's to a person's psyche.

I've been lucky in that I can still function fairly well, although not for too long at any one time. I've trained a couple of less functional people, and found that they respond better to detail than many fully functional people. Something about "last chance" seems to focus the mind.

Pops
 
When I started this thread I didn't expect a response anywhere near this magnitude. I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has contributed. Be safe always.
 
I hear the VA comment. I see the folks missing limbs etc, and I think to myself, "So what if the disks (neck and back) are messed up and I can't run like I used to? So what if there's arthritis in my shooting hand? I can work (office type), walk, run if absolutely necessary, shoot light-kicking pistols... I'm not really messed up. I can even do some yardwork, and hunt a little."

It could be worse. It could always be worse. I'm just grateful for what I have.
 
I have Hypertrophic Obstructional Cardio Myopathy. Can't believe I spelled that right. I cannot run, and I cannot walk at a normal pace more than a few steps without being incapacitated by shortness of breath, chest pain, and severe fatigue. A trip to Mayo Clinic brought no relief. but, like all the other fine gimps out there, I do carry and will do whatever becomes necessary. Improved health to all of you folks.
 
No matter how bad it is, it can always be worse.Accidents and injury don't always happen to someone else!
I am often reminded of the saying''I felt sory for myself,because I had no shoes,untill I met a man who had no feet''.
Do the best you can, with what God has given you,because there is always someone in a lot worse shape than you.
I had just laid down and gave up,for a couple of years, until I decided no matter how little I did,if I just did what I could every day,then I could do a little more each day,if I really got off my sorry butt and tried hard!!!:) :)

Just really glad for each day the Lord gives me!:D :D

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