Sam1911
Moderator Emeritus
So doing nothing is BETTER than calling the police and asking them to handle it? So they'd come once before. Now they can come out again. Even if all they get him to do is shut up for the night, that's better than a shooting and jail time.What am I suggesting? I thought it was clear, I said the only option he has that doesn't have potential of getting himself in trouble or killed, is to do nothing. I then made a point that it often doesn't matter what you do, and cited specific examples to support my point. So what are you getting at?
Perhaps the police would have considered that one warning was obviously not sufficient and would have cited Mr. Noisy with a violation. Or even, depending on local law, arrested him and removed him for the evening. Or maybe they'd have done nothing but speak to him. Surely still better than shots fired, life ended, and freedom lost. No?Well, considering his wife had already called the police prior, and the same thing was happening, how would that have helped!?!?!
I don't see why you keep saying "the ONLY" choice is to do nothing.
And what happens with the second (or third) call? The police keep patting him on the head? No, generally it doesn't work that way. They have a certain amount of discretion in how much pressure they put on him. Rarely will one noise complaint end in an arrest. But repeated calls certainly can, and can bring charges.I can't help you if you fail to see that what you are suggesting was already done, and didn't work.
Agreed!The fact that (assuming the article is correct), that when he tried handle it like a man, by talking to the individual, was assaulted, and unfortunately it ended up deadly. What do you want me to say? Is it bad the guy was killed? Of course. But it was bad that the guy killed assaulted somebody. It was bad that this was a second incident that wasn't resolved the first time. It was bad there was any incident to begin with. There wasn't anything good about the situation.
But the phrase that he should "handle it like a man" is really simply a nod to the old "fisticuffs" ideal. Hey, be brave, man-up, stand up for yourself, don't tattle to "the man," don't be a sissy. Right? That's the sort of thinking that sends a man to face down someone he's already had trouble with and too often ends with one man dead and another in jail.
And it's exactly the line of thinking that informs the "mutual combatant" concept.
Well, if I did misinterpret your words, I apologize. I took from the "like a man" theme that you approved of his intents, if not results. I'm sorry.To suggest anything I said meant I thought what happened was a good thing is a blatant and intentional misrepresentation of what I said.